I'm talking about the high effect from the cigarette, I'm not sure I follow you. And I smoked rarely, only when I went to clubs or recently when playing poker, which happen 1 time per week maximum.
What principles?
Stage 2 Day 32:
I went to a club, I drunk around 5 beers during the night. I was more confident due to that. I was able approach a girl on the dance floor and dance with her, I took her hand and I start to dance with her. It was much more easier than I thought. I used to approach girl by behind and most girl are too timid to accept that approach. So I danced with her for at least 10 minutes. She was very shy and timid, she doesn't seem to be use to be in night clubs. Even after 5 minutes dancing with her she wasn't comfortable and at some point her hands were moist. She is a very nice girl. At some point I removed her hair on her neck and I make the move like I was about to kiss her but I saw she didn't want to so I stopped.
After that I stopped dancing with her, I noticed she wasn't completely into it.
I was wearing Impi red, but it didn't seem to do much more but I like the scent very much.
I saw her again before I went home and I talked to her, I gave her my number, I insisted about it. She seems to be a very nice girl, she sent me a message today, we talked for about 2 hours.
At the drinking table I was with my friend and we were talking. There was a table with 2 girls and 4 men near our table, the tables almost touched. So they could hear us talking. At some point there was a lingerie contest and I comment on the men and women doing it, some being too skinny and stuff like that. And the woman near me at my left returned herself to agree with me and making a few comments with me. She did that at least 5 times. She also returned herself a lot in my direction. She was laughing with her friends and I noticed some preening in her body language. I wasn't paying attention to her at all, she was around a 7 and I didn't even listen to one word of their conversation. At some point the men at their table was looking at me surprised they didn't know what was happening and why she was engaging conversation with me a lot like that, I wasn't wearing impi red yet at this time. So that would be the second time a women engage conversation with me like that in a group setting. But this time it was even more bold because I didn't know any of the men there. I didn't met her while dancing maybe she would have tried to seduce me more. Anyway she wasn't my type and she older than me, at least 5 years older than me.
Stage 3 day 1:
I woke up with enthusiastic today.
Day 2:
I'm going to share something about having an erection more easily when you are with a girl. It's something we don't think about when we watch porn or we are masturbating. If someone would have told me about this before I had sex with my sex friend for the first time this would have really help me and I would have probably fuc**ed her more than once the first night.
So here it goes:
When you are with a girl sometimes you aren't completely comfortable because you have to perform and sometimes you are just tired and not willing to do it again. So the hard on doesn't come as easily, and after the first ejaculation sometimes it doesn't work anymore. In this kind of situation we don't know what to do because we don't have this problem while watching porn or when alone masturbating, when we are tired we just stop and we relax and start again 10 minutes later. Sometimes the girls doesn't hold your dick properly and what she does isn't helping you to get hard again, her skills sucks.
I come up with a plan to help with that problem. When I'm alone I train myself to go from 0 to completely hard very fast, this have to be 0, no hardness at all, I was surprised personally because when there no hardness at all it's not as easy as I thought. So I find the best manipulation that get me hard very fast, on that I think it will be different for everyone, you have to experiment it, we think we know everything about our dic* but most of the time it's not true. I come up with a few hands move that get me hard no matter how tired I am. I do it a lot of time so I'm sure this would work everywhere, no matter how shitty I feel.
So now when I will have sex with another girl I can be fully confident that I will be able to get hard. Another tips worth mentioning is that if the girl can't make you hard remove her hands and mouth from your sex and do it yourself. The best would be that you don't use any words but you use body language alone and best would be you show her how to do it properly with your hands and tell her to do that exactly that. That will really show her that you are experimented and dominant by the way.
Do you touch her while sucking, i usally get hard by touching her while she is sucking, and not from the sucking alone. Also try to proactivly fuck her mouth.
Well I think it's due to the fact that I'm a very emotional guy and I see easily when a girl is faking or not taking pleasure while doing it so it's a turn off.
I get turn on when someone is turn on and taking pleasure. Will try the touching next time.
A girl who is crazy just add in me in her favorite (dating website), this chicks is so irrational I can't believe she is a fake lol.
There is this thing called snus in sweden its like tobacco in a small bag you put it above the teeth. Everytime i take a dose i become beta and nervous all over again. I lose frame and my state crashes completly.
(05-02-2016, 08:45 AM)Kurohawk Wrote: [ -> ]There is this thing called snus in sweden its like tobacco in a small bag you put it above the teeth. Everytime i take a dose i become beta and nervous all over again. I lose frame and my state crashes completly.
I noticed that Davidoff gold is the only cigarette that doesnt make you beta.
I smoked a Marlboro, the white packet Saturday, I didn't feel beta.
seriously guys and please do not take any offense here. there is absolutely no value in smoking, beta or Alpha. there is simply just health destruction. full stop.
Sorry Alpha360 to be off topic here:
I find it strange how people think "I am alpha and look at that stupid guy, I call him beta what makes him inferior to me, haha".
You always seem to look for what is bad with people or what is lacking so you feel better. Is it possible to look for something within other people that you are grateful for, that you like in that person and that makes that person worth knowing? Yes, it gives away power, but if you think you are the most powerful man on earth, do you think you end up at the bottom if you give away a little bit of your power?
(05-02-2016, 02:40 PM)Light Wrote: [ -> ]seriously guys and please do not take any offense here. there is absolutely no value in smoking, beta or Alpha. there is simply just health destruction. full stop.
Who said there was any value in smoking? You are implying that we value smoking, quiet the opposite, if it makes me beta it's even more worthless and this adds another reason for me to not smoke.
(05-03-2016, 07:24 AM)AriGold Wrote: [ -> ]Sorry Alpha360 to be off topic here:
I find it strange how people think "I am alpha and look at that stupid guy, I call him beta what makes him inferior to me, haha".
You always seem to look for what is bad with people or what is lacking so you feel better. Is it possible to look for something within other people that you are grateful for, that you like in that person and that makes that person worth knowing? Yes, it gives away power, but if you think you are the most powerful man on earth, do you think you end up at the bottom if you give away a little bit of your power?
I don't think you were talking about me but personaly I would feel better if there was a great couple flirting next to me. I would study them
Though most of the time when I'm out I see fuc* up couples, or a very beta guy. I like to see great men, doing great, it's rare. There is a barman that I appreciate a lot, he is really masculine and social, If I was gay I think I would be attracted to him
I do enjoy great skills when people have it. I don't think it gives away your power as long as you don't tell them that you fancy them. What gives away your power is mostly when you talk with a women that you really like and you tell her that you like this quality that she has and she don't agree with you about it. If she has self esteem issue she will probably not believe you. It's not easy to compliment, Shannon made a post about it, very long, he explained it better than me.
Stage 3 day 13:
Very weird stage. Neediness is near zero. I'm bored by online dating, I rejected most girl I was talking with because they wasn't good enough, far from it actually. I'm tired of their bs and the huge investment I do each time, I didn't even sent message to that girl I got the number last time. I went out last week with some friends, and a similar pattern appeared but less obvious. There was a girl talking with my friend, and I just said nothing mostly, not because I was afraid but because it felt useless, boring. Attractiveness doesn't seem as high because I don't care mostly, I'm not into it but when I'm into it it's still great.
I didn't go out this week, I studied everyday and the weather isn't good. The killer vibe seems to have decreased. I don't see myself as cocky and arrogant as in the previous stage.
Even with all that I don't felt any resistance with any SM3 stage, at least nothing obvious, I felt more resistance while on ASC.
i know what you are talking about Alpha. for me stage 3 was the stage where i felt mostly that the program is not working at all. only towards the end of it, did i feel a bit better. I lost unfortunately motivation to keep any journal, so i deleted mines. what you describe above ( this zero neediness) i have it now at the end of stage 4. theer are matches who are writing to me on Tinder, but i can not be bothered. the amateur bikini model is begging to meet me, but i can not be bothered. i approached a greek girl made out with her, and then i even did not want to continue talking to her .i started to appraoch again and i am starting something with a chinese girl i got to know. stage 4 also brought me intimidation. i am very intimidating to some girls. i had a date with one girl, an dit was fine, the next day i said "HI" to her she looked at me like i killed her father. she did not even stop to talk to me at all!!!
so very mixed stuff.
it is weird, how the awsomeness of stage 1 and 2 disappeared and we are facing now discouraging results! i have a feeling though that stage 5 and 6 might bring some goodies! also this program seems to hit hard once it is completely finished. Just wanted to share this with you and tell you that i enjoy reading your journal, whatever the results are
Well it felt really hard to write that stuff I just wrote so I understand why you deleted yours.
But I'm feeling really good right now though. What is weird is that I don't feel ok, or I'm bored , or irritated but when my mood change It goes really up like I'm really enjoying it. Dzeemo seems to have that too.
Seems like the past 13 days might have been some resistance because I wasn't as great and smooth. Hard to tell but it wasn't hell for sure, just some irritation and boredom. I want to emphasize that because deep inside I see it as easy to endure (edited I see it instead of I don't). I don't want to afraid guys and tell them SM3 is hell on earth when it feels really easy until now.
It feels weird too that I changed so much in stage 3 like my killer vibe is gone. What is weird is that the stage description doesn't mention anything new that would make such a difference. It's strange, might be our resistance or the stage isn't script properly
or Shannon didn't mention what is really happening.
I had a dream about underage girl yesterday, I was trying to fuck her and she avoided it nicely, the girl was 14 or something like that. Might be fear of fucking an underage girl. I was totally smooth even if she didn't want to kiss me, her brother was watching, what a mess !!!
I don't like to talk about dreams but this one was fun and unusual. Also I don't like the limitation about underage girl feel like wasted script to me, it's a bit like the anti gay vibe it's not really useful.