Yeah it's a rare thing you have here, usually it's a girl problem not a man problem. I would say you are in the luckier side as a lot of guys complain they come too fast.
Do you have the same problem while using your hand? Maybe you are used too much to masturbation. I heard something they called death grip in some forum. It's when you put too much pressure while masturbating so when you have sex you don't feel anything so you don't come.
Other possibility she is not hot is enough for you. Stress is highly unlikely as most of the time this cause the opposite effect you have (coming too fast).
(03-02-2016, 04:48 AM)Mystic Pymp Wrote: [ -> ]Hey guys, please help me out!
I got a girlfriend (yeaaaaaah!) and I lost virginity with her (yeaaaaaaaaaah!). I slept with her twice so far and the problem is both times I couldn't come. I'm hard all the time and she rides me all she wants cumming along the way for half an hour, but because of stress or some blockade I just get nothing. She's way more experienced than I am and she knows what she's doing, but it's simply not enough. Do you have any experiences like that? Any advice?
Congrats man!
I don't understand your "problem" however. Certainly it must be better to be able NOT to cum and get that girl to try her darndest to milk it out of you, no?
Maybe she is not tight enough because she fucked so much or your dick is small. Try her ass.
(03-02-2016, 05:00 AM)Multiworld Wrote: [ -> ]Mystic Pymp that sounds a little rare,she gets a raise in you,you might have to think about some of the hottest women you would love to be with as well while doing her,that might do the trick.
good luck!
Yeah, I've heard of that before. Didn't really do the trick though, I was way too in the phase to think about techniques.
(03-02-2016, 06:54 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: [ -> ]How old are you mystique pump
22
(03-02-2016, 06:59 AM)Alpha360 Wrote: [ -> ]Yeah it's a rare thing you have here, usually it's a girl problem not a man problem. I would say you are in the luckier side as a lot of guys complain they come too fast.
Do you have the same problem while using your hand? Maybe you are used too much to masturbation. I heard something they called death grip in some forum. It's when you put too much pressure while masturbating so when you have sex you don't feel anything so you don't come.
Other possibility she is not hot is enough for you. Stress is highly unlikely as most of the time this cause the opposite effect you have (coming too fast).
I was thinking about masturbation addiction. There might be something to it, but still I think I should come by simple brute force. As to stress, she could feel my heartbeat from simply cuddling, so it's quite bad.
(03-02-2016, 07:04 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]Congrats man!
I don't understand your "problem" however. Certainly it must be better to be able NOT to cum and get that girl to try her darndest to milk it out of you, no?
Other than the fact that she thinks she's unattractive or, worse, I'm gay? Sure, great times.
(03-02-2016, 07:05 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: [ -> ]Maybe she is not tight enough because she ***** so much or your dick is small. Try her ass.
She cummed a lot and hard, so I don't my dick was too small. But she could have been tighter, that's for sure. Anal is out of the question though.
(03-02-2016, 01:02 PM)ImFreeman Wrote: [ -> ]Also if you have been wanking for a long time using porn, try not watching any more.
Also look into 'deathgrip syndrome'. Basicly you wank your weiner so hard that it becomes desensitized
I will, thanks.
I will keep you posted. The worst thing is that I feel intimidated by her. She's quite experienced and I very little. Thankfully she's quite into me and she's supportive, so hopefully we're gonna figure this out.
The first few times I had sex, I always lasted so long I couldn't ejaculate. It was all nerves. Will she give you oral? Perhaps that'd help. Or you could give her lock jaw. :-D
BIATBW 8.0...Are u still using that?
(03-02-2016, 04:05 PM)RTBoss Wrote: [ -> ]The first few times I had sex, I always lasted so long I couldn't ejaculate. It was all nerves. Will she give you oral? Perhaps that'd help. Or you could give her lock jaw. :-D
Good to know I'm not the only one
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(03-03-2016, 07:41 AM)zainuu163 Wrote: [ -> ]BIATBW 8.0...Are u still using that?
Oh, I forgot about it. I switched to AM6 second run in the middle of February, and I met her soon after. I might do some kind of summary of my BIATBW one day. I would not claim she's been attracted by that sub though, especially since I don't consider her "beautiful" (solid 7/10 I think).
Did u ever use AM Sub before using BIATBW?
(03-03-2016, 11:10 AM)Mystic Pymp Wrote: [ -> ] (03-02-2016, 04:05 PM)RTBoss Wrote: [ -> ]The first few times I had sex, I always lasted so long I couldn't ejaculate. It was all nerves. Will she give you oral? Perhaps that'd help. Or you could give her lock jaw. :-D
Good to know I'm not the only one .
(03-03-2016, 07:41 AM)zainuu163 Wrote: [ -> ]BIATBW 8.0...Are u still using that?
Oh, I forgot about it. I switched to AM6 second run in the middle of February, and I met her soon after. I might do some kind of summary of my BIATBW one day. I would not claim she's been attracted by that sub though, especially since I don't consider her "beautiful" (solid 7/10 I think).
The women get more attractive the more you listen to it. At first there are not that attractive.
(03-03-2016, 11:52 AM)zainuu163 Wrote: [ -> ]Did u ever use AM Sub before using BIATBW?
Yes, I did. There should be journal somewhere in this forum.
(03-04-2016, 12:37 AM)Alpha360 Wrote: [ -> ]The women get more attractive the more you listen to it. At first there are not that attractive.
So do you think doing more BIATBW would be better than running AM now? I'm thinking AM 1-6 -> more BIATBW right now, I think I could use AM for more general development.
Okay, so the news are we broke up. We discussed things and realized, that we have different approach to sex. I need sex for emotional bond, while she needs it just to let off some steam. Anyhow she's not ready for anything serious after her last relationship, so we'll stay buddies for now. She didn't explicitly said that, but I know I can have sex with her almost on demand, we just need free room. Even if I don't intend to use that, it's always good for my self-esteem. Anyway I wouldn't be surprised if things with her changed next week, it's quite a ride with her. Gonna keep her close.
For next weeks I want to focus on two things: developing myself as an alpha male and researching and applying LOA (law of attraction). My self-esteem is probably life-time high and I know I can get a girl I want (I finally have a proof), so sky is the limit guys!
Give me 3 months, and I will show you LOA works.
(03-08-2016, 12:30 PM)yeah! Wrote: [ -> ]If you were Mateo, do you remember how you thought LOA didn't work or had serious doubts?
What do you do no LOA wise, I am very interested to know?
I am still a bit skeptical, however I've been playing around with it since October I think and I've noticed some interesting coincidences. It's hard to say if those were due to my efforts, subs or both. Right now I'm preparing for kind of LOA offensive, where I will use all my knowledge + test some theories I have + further my research and apply what I learn. I plan on doing this until summer, simultaneously doing my second AM run.
Should my efforts succeed I promise I will share all I know
Onward to Stage 2. I can't wait to see what will happen in the following weeks.
Half-way through stage 2. It's been strange 2 weeks, and following ones are sure to be strange as well. I stopped exercising LOA, mainly because I truly don't know what I'm looking for. I still meet with that girl from before (we are friends now, although it's very complicated) and she makes me realize important things about life and love.
You see, ever since I started doing subs I've been torn. While starting my runs I was beta as fuck, virgin and hopeless loser. Things are better now, but I'm still introvert and romantic. I know most of you would say oneitis is wrong, but I am a person who enjoys comfort and stability. I mean of course it's hard to find the right person and it's easy to think wrong person is the right one and suffer afterwards, but I believe it's worth it. With her though... I'll never truly have her, there will be no oneitis. And I'm not really fine with it, but maybe I have to learn to be accept it and enjoy things as they are. Yes, I am insecure right now.
Funny thing is she believes in destiny, and there are some strange coincidences around our personas. I don't believe in destiny, but I accept she might be manifested. If so it's funny: she's not somebody I want, but she may well be somebody I need right now. Not to be happy with, but to have our moments and teach me life.