(10-29-2014, 10:40 PM)AlphaReal Wrote: [ -> ]My only regret, I spent a lot of time doing nothing.
Yes, but at least you're not experiencing that regret on your deathbed. You're doing something now, and that's what matters most.
Best of luck.
Nationwide
(10-29-2014, 08:07 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]AM makes you alpha. Alpha does what it takes to be able to take care of himself first. That is what attracts the ladies. And when you get there - whether directly or indirectly from having done AM - you will have plenty of opportunity with women. But women require strength, self sufficiency, financial stability and health of mind, body and emotions. Much better to be/come what naturally attracts a woman, than to seek her out before then. The better, more successful and healthier you make yourself, the more options you will have, and the better quality of women you will have to choose from. So the question is... on which floor of your potential do you wish to start seeking sex?
See this exactly why BASE is a better option for me right after I finish AM6. BASE will make anyone who uses it more stable mentally, and financially. Plus, whoever uses it, will have a purpose and direction in their lives. Which will make them very busy doing what they want to do, hence it will make them more attractive to the opposite sex. Mostly, women, because women love a man who is living his life to the fullest. Who doesn't have time for a woman, that just makes him that much more attractive to women. For the reason that he won't be needy, clingy, or desperate for her because he knows he can get any woman he wants.
(10-30-2014, 08:40 AM)Nationwide Wrote: [ -> ] (10-29-2014, 10:40 PM)AlphaReal Wrote: [ -> ]My only regret, I spent a lot of time doing nothing.
Yes, but at least you're not experiencing that regret on your deathbed. You're doing something now, and that's what matters most.
Best of luck.
Nationwide
If I remember correctly you are 40 something right?
C'mon don't say that, I am almost in my mid-thirties, and I have been feeling that I am short on time since my mid-twenties, you won't believe I used to panic that I am wasting away my life and that panic is one of the major reasons, I didn't see long term, and made a lot of bad decisions, and now I feel I was so young in mid-twenties, why the hell did I panic!!
So believe me forties is not deathbed, if I remember correctly the owner of KFC started KFC after retirement (60s??), there are a lot of examples of people achieving great things past their 'prime'.
I don't remember the name, but I read about this novelist, who got published for the first time I think in his 90s, and then I have forgotten, but I think he published something like 10 or more novels, and he called his 90s the best decade of his life....
(this post is as much for you as for me :-)
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To all of the alphareals Brads and Shubs on this forum:
We need to realize that we can never know how much time we have left on this earth, whether we have lived majority of our lives already or if the majority of our years are lying ahead of us on this planet! So the only thing we can do is look forward. And as they say, those were the mistakes that we needed to make. So let's look forward :-)
"Never judge a game on the score at half time :-) " (and we do not know when our 'half time' is
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I am still hanging on to the belief that Shannon will create a Live Forever 6g sub, followed by a Regain Your Youth 6g sub
Lol. Anything is possible. Make more money or have more sex ? Why not both?
Because the human brain in most case deal better when he does one thing at a time. It doesn't mean it's impossible but it will take more time to do and might also be harder. That's why most sub here focus in one area of life at a time.
(11-02-2014, 08:23 AM)Jackpot_100 Wrote: [ -> ]Lol. Anything is possible. Make more money or have more sex ? Why not both?
As I have stated before, it is a well known fact that these are conflicting goals. One increases your wealth, and one depletes it. They also conflict on focus and use of resources. You cannot focus on making money if you're also focused on getting laid. Believe me, I speak from experience on this one.
It's about like trying to ride two bicycles at the same time. Each goal defeats the other. If I tried to create a balanced approach, they would still defeat each other, and you would see very little of either one.
It costs money, time and other resources to find, attract and keep the interests of a woman. It costs those same resources to achieve success financially. You have to pick one.
(11-03-2014, 09:21 AM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]It costs money, time and other resources to find, attract and keep the interests of a woman. It costs those same resources to achieve success financially. You have to pick one.
Shannon i don't understand the part you say keeping women needs money.yes betas spend money on dates and gifts.i think you mean the time you spend with her means you can't make more money.right?
If you think only betas spend money on dates, then you're going to be a very lonely man. Dates cost money. Are you going to stick her with the bill every time? At least, an alpha pays for himself. That's still money. Going out costs money. Entertainment costs money. A woman will spend time with a man she enjoys the company of, and while not every woman requires dates, clubs, etc, she doesn't want a guy who she has to pay for either. So attracting and maintaining the interests of a woman requires outflow of financial resources. Like it or not, them's the breaks. Not saying you have to buy her things, or pay for her - but it still costs money, regardless of whether or not you do.
Your single most valuable resource is time. Are you going to be productive in increasing your wealth if you are at a club looking for sex or relationships? And if you're not increasing your wealth and you are looking for sex/relationships, then you are spending your resources and going in the reverse direction to interest any woman. She wants to know that at the very least, you can take care of yourself. Can you do that if you spend all your money and don't replenish your supply, or actively increase your financial standpoint?
That is why I once said, the men do what it takes to get what they want, and the boys go after what they want without ever doing what it takes. What it takes is not fun - you can't just go after sex. You have to make yourself what she needs you to be in order to be safe and worth having sex with first. And that means you need to be able to take care of yourself, emotionally, physically and financially.
You show me a job or career in which you get sex while making money and I'll show you a line of work that will instantly disqualify you with the women you most want to keep, date, have sex with. So you have to pick one. Getting yourself good financially, or sex. Sex drains resources, and making money increases them. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out the rest.
(11-03-2014, 11:24 AM)MJ1 Wrote: [ -> ] (11-03-2014, 09:21 AM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]It costs money, time and other resources to find, attract and keep the interests of a woman. It costs those same resources to achieve success financially. You have to pick one.
Shannon i don't understand the part you say keeping women needs money.yes betas spend money on dates and gifts.i think you mean the time you spend with her means you can't make more money.right?
The reasons it conflicts "subliminal-wise" are also on page 10 of this thread...