If you are focusing on work, then maybe you should focus your subliminals on same direction? Because if you are spending all your time for work and using attraction/women oriented subs I doubt you will get good results with either work of girls. Try to laser focus on your goals.
I've been using Success-based subs (one at a time, 40-50 Days) for 161 Days (at the end of today), and plan to do a total of 210 (at least).
I'm considering the possibility that I can still focus on my career most the time, and have some sort of a sex life on the side (like sex once every 2 - 4 weeks).
I figured that AYP would attract a lover who would be okay with being apart, except to have sex every 2 - 4 weeks.
Shannon's comment implies that AYP might not work that way, etc.
I'm mostly wondering exactly why a person who uses AYP would have to spend so much time / energy on sex.
Is it because of the extreme 'sexual tension' between you / her?
Is it that the relationship would fail if you weren't having sex several times a week?
and so on.
EDIT:
Though, either way, I probably won't be using AYP for at least another 12-18 months or so.
Also, good to see some AYP / MYP journals!!
@
Clansy
Well, you could be right that I don't have much to lose. Yet, the time I would lose may be something.
I would also love to have this solve my military requirement. Yet, I doubt if it will be able to do it.... Let's say that I'm determined to not to go back to my country until I hit age of 40, and that I meet PSL and get married. (Probably not wise idea, but let's just say it.) If this were to happen a few years ago, then it would've worked as I would have had enough time to get US citizenship to actually pull it. (The determination to not go back until age of 40 would be something else though.) Unfortunately, I'm out of time that it really wouldn't work that way.
and about what I have to lose.... I suppose it ultimately comes down to how my perfect lover will turn out. If it requires that I have sex with her too much that it starts to get in other things, then it could be a loss. (Although having lots of sex is a gain in some other sense.)
This ultimately comes down to what perfect means, and what it will look like. If perfect means compatible with my other aspects, then it may be worthwhile. If not, then I suppose I may get myself settled first and then come back to finish what I started.
@ MasterEnki
I suppose my question is sort of similar to yours. And I hope Shannon can answer both of us.
I am led to believe that "perfect" is YOUR definition of "perfect" so in that case the lover will be everything you want.
@
Ricardo,
Is the perfectness' definition from conscious or subconscious mind? I feel that things are going to be a bit different. And also, my sense of perfect lover is that the love will be there, (and sex and etc....) but it won't interfere or get in the way of my other goals. (which is in my conscious sense, and I'm not sure what a PSL would be under my subconscious) However, Shannon's description of his experience and his comments on this journal makes me think that my PSL may not fit that category of definition.
This is where my dilemma lies.
Well, I just found that I have terrible approach anxiety.
Sunday and Today, I went to the same restaurant. Usually I don't go to same restaurant in such a small interval of time.
Anyway, the time at the restaurant made me realize how much approach anxiety I have. For instance, both times, I had perfect moments to approach girl, and start talking, and etc... My mind was telling that I should do it.
Unfortunately, I couldn't get myself to do it. Hell, even when I said that this is it, this is the moment. You're ready, go for it, and when I was about to do it, I couldn't do it.
In fact, this is third time (or fourth) time I found myself being in the situation.
I need to work on this approach issue.
If you have AA sometimes I recommend you take some 5-htp or st johns wort. These have been known to reduce anxious feelings and heighten your mood.
(07-08-2014, 07:28 PM)sw72hw Wrote: [ -> ]@Ricardo,
Is the perfectness' definition from conscious or subconscious mind? I feel that things are going to be a bit different. And also, my sense of perfect lover is that the love will be there, (and sex and etc....) but it won't interfere or get in the way of my other goals. (which is in my conscious sense, and I'm not sure what a PSL would be under my subconscious) However, Shannon's description of his experience and his comments on this journal makes me think that my PSL may not fit that category of definition.
This is where my dilemma lies.
It's the subconcious because although your conscious mind has what you believe to be your ideal lover, on the surface, perhaps, pretty blonde with big boobies, your subconscious has a more rounded view in that it knows what would benefit you absolutely, mind body and soul. The conscious mind is quite base and 'earthy' but it's the subconscious that is your better part.
@ IainLPplus44
It's not exactly an anxiety I feel. I don't feel anxious or anything, or if it is an anxiety that I feel, it certainly is not something really huge to be really registered as anxiety. (Trust me, I know what an anxiety feel like to a point that I couldn't even leave my place.) But as mentioned, I don't know why but I just can't get past that last barrier to approach women... It's gotten better that I am more talkative, but only in a point that it wouldn't be socially out of norm or awkward.
Anyway, I appreciate your opinion and recommendation on this matter.
@ Ricardo
Subconscious part makes me feel a bit worried. The perfect "sexual" lover may have different meaning in my subconscious mind than in my conscious mind. The definition for perfect sexual in my subconscious mind may be that I have sex with the lover all the time, which I cannot handle or take at present moment or near future. (It would be great in one sense, but if that gets in my other important area of the life, then it's a problem.) It may not be the definition. I wish I can find out what that definition is for my subconscious mind.
@ Ricardo
Subconscious part makes me feel a bit worried. The perfect "sexual" lover may have different meaning in my subconscious mind than in my conscious mind. The definition for perfect sexual in my subconscious mind may be that I have sex with the lover all the time, which I cannot handle or take at present moment or near future. (It would be great in one sense, but if that gets in my other important area of the life, then it's a problem.) It may not be the definition. I wish I can find out what that definition is for my subconscious mind.
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Well the idea of the sub is sex based but what you are saying is that your knowledge of say nuclear physics is greater than a nuclear physicist!
No you definitely do not know better than your subconscious! At the end of the day give the sub a go. If it works you can evaluate the situation and your feelings etc afterwards. Then if you're not happy, end the relationship and move on..nothing ventured nothing gained!
It will be interesting to see what kind of results you get from the 5G version.
Fonzy had excellent results from the 4G.
I'm wondering how much more effective 5G really is, in practice, for AYP.
I've decided that my strategy is going to be:
6-9 months of AoS / BIATBW.
If I don't get any 'action' from women. Then do up to 9 months (maximum) of AYPSL.
If I don't get anyone after 9 months of AYPSL, then give up (and focus on other areas), and assume that I'm not meant to have a relationship.
Ultimately,
The only way to be certain of results, is to do it.
I have yet to read anyone that has had manifestation success with the 5G programs. First of all 5G is much more powerful then the previous generation. I was under the impression that these new 5G manifestations programs include OE. To manifest 10-15 threads instead of 1 or 2 that the previous generation would. Anyhow, I would say you and your lover will meet in a couple more months.
Thanks
Fonzy
Okay guys,
I appreciate your inputs. This is what I am thinking of doing. First, I am going to stick with this sub till next semester, which means next December. So that would be more than 6 or more months of use. I may stop using it if I manifest my perfect lover before than that.
Then I will give about a month break, and then switch to either AM or LTU, but I think I am gonna go for LTU, as it doesn't create drama that AM creates (probably bad to have drama during the time of last semester of senior year.) Also LTU can be used for 3 months, while AM is min of 6 months.
So, we'll see if 5G AYP program is good or not. But then, I may have lots of issues to deal with, so I am not going to be a great example to measure the effectiveness, but nevertheless we'll see if this works.
Hopefully I will manifest the lover in that time. (Fingers crossed)
p.s. I have a question..... can this perfect lover be someone you knew already, or is this person always someone you didn't know?
(07-11-2014, 07:31 PM)sw72hw Wrote: [ -> ]Okay guys,
I appreciate your inputs. This is what I am thinking of doing. First, I am going to stick with this sub till next semester, which means next December. So that would be more than 6 or more months of use. I may stop using it if I manifest my perfect lover before than that.
Then I will give about a month break, and then switch to either AM or LTU, but I think I am gonna go for LTU, as it doesn't create drama that AM creates (probably bad to have drama during the time of last semester of senior year.) Also LTU can be used for 3 months, while AM is min of 6 months.
So, we'll see if 5G AYP program is good or not. But then, I may have lots of issues to deal with, so I am not going to be a great example to measure the effectiveness, but nevertheless we'll see if this works.
Hopefully I will manifest the lover in that time. (Fingers crossed)
p.s. I have a question..... can this perfect lover be someone you knew already, or is this person always someone you didn't know?
since my ayp thread got bumped when i went awol and i got quieried about my results, i'll do the same for this AYP.
hey op? did you meet your perfect lover? any word about ayp 5g result?