Subliminal Talk

The way it worked for me, was my attitude. I held myself stronger, more confident, more bold and comfort around women, also the sly smile, the indifference towards women, and the feeling of greatness. By having this attitude everything changes from the expressions on your face, to how you walk, to the clothes you wear, to how you speak, react, and analyze things. Everything adds up, just like someone who isn't necessarily the best looking person can still be 'attractive'. Attractive is different in my book, attractive, has to do with the complete package, IMO, not just looks but personality. As for the looks, the way it worked for me was I no longer had any 'negative' flaws. I have flaws in my appearance but when I looked in the mirror, I didn't have negative thoughts because they were replaced, thus, I didn't get down on certain parts that I disliked, I learned to like them. And once again, attitude plays into that by how you express your looks.

If you've ever seen the movie, Youth in Revolt, you'll see how everything about the character changes as soon as he rebels, his looks, personality, everything, it makes him more attractive (he is no longer a wuss).

Woman Magnet turns you in to Michael Cera, lol. I'll scratch that one off my list of subs I'll try if that's the case.

Quote:It will be interesting to see how you fare in your escalation quests. I read many people write there is no intention when they are chatting away to someone attractive and I start to wonder if it is just ego protection. How comes the attractive girls you were chatting to not amazing enough for you to take it further? What happens if the amazing woman you are saving yourself for doesn't exist, what would you do different?

Admittedly escalation of any kind has always been a sticking point for me. Not out of - direct - ego protection but more procrastination; "not today; maybe tomorrow". I know this probably is direct ego protection and a bad habit I've developed just to remain comfortable. I really need to give seize the day a good run once I've got through Women Magnet, but that is not the point I was trying to make. The point was that there seems to have been a transmutation of all desire towards the desire for light-hearted fun. Just really comfortable, bonding banter. I can still - and still do - escalate with women I like very comfortably and with ease I'm just feeling less need to do so. Like, as if, times I have in the past have been more about validation and reputation than anything else.

On Friday when I got out the house and went out, I twice told two separate girls "how cold are your hands" then it occurred to me later that both of the girls had walked directly up to me and put there hands on my arms/hands and held them there for several minutes whilst talking to me. One of the girls was outside at the time, and the other girls - a few hours later - was inside. But the point is, twice I was approached and twice I was kinoed.

Yeah I know how difficult escalation can be even when there is obvious signs. It has happened to me countless times. Even when you get the all clear there are still doubts, that has to be the most frustrating thing ever.

Is is good that you got kinoed, that would be a good sign. I got kinoed twice in stage 1, but unfortunately the women were married. I think kino from a single girl would be a good sign. I gotta admit if I was in your shoes and I got kinoed I would still be erring and umming on the side of caution. Call it male pattern blindness.

The only thing I can possibly think of is, it may come down to how desirable you feel to the opposite sex. The key is being honest with yourself, about what is holding you back.

Not sure sieze the day would be the most suitable sub for this situation. I will check out the description for it to check it out, didn't even know there was this sub. Would be interested in finding out what kind of sub could help with this.

It makes me wonder if stage 5 and 6 has something in the script that will counteract the "male pattern blindness" thing going on. Shannon can advise on that I guess. I would probably visualize a positive outcome when the escalation thing comes around.
Okay, you guys define "kino" to me since it's a rather alien term to me.

Ronatello I swear there must be something in the alpha male program because it seems to have that effect on me. Noticed a girl looking at me ALOT and I was making excuses at first which I seem to do alot, but in the end I thought "she is looking too much for it to not be anything." I was still too scared to go over there and approach but when she walked past not long later I did approach and my intuition was right, she talked to me for quite a while and I got her number.

I will expand on it a bit in my journal.

(11-16-2010, 04:29 AM)Blueness Wrote: [ -> ]ronatello,
*Kino is (Kinaesthetics) ''Touching'' in simple terms.

WildFlower are you the first one to use Woman Magnet Or has Shannon & others tested Woman Magent themselfs?

The PDF file of the Woman Magnet is not a extensive as the Alpha Male.

I think most that tested it jumped over to Alpha male after a stage or two. I don't know if there are any others currently testing it. I'm on day 23 of Stage 4 right now and I'm not sure if any of the others who tested it first time made it this far. Shannon would be the better person to ask with regards other Women Magnet testers.

I'm currently on stage 2. I'm spending 40 days on each stage just to make sure it sinks in. Will be going onto stage 3 tomorrow.

So far the thing I've noticed most is just a massive confidence boost. I'm feeling ALOT more comfortable with my body and looks and just being myself when I go anywhere. Now a days going out is more about me just having a good time, talking a bit of shit and just enjoying myself. If I meet some girls while I'm out awesome if not no dramas.

The social element is now positively ridiculous. I make new friends left right and centre. Not superficial either. Even though the topics of conversation all tend to be really light, jokey and not at all serious there is a depth and warmth to the intimacy beneath it. I feel like I pick peoples spirits up and "touch their souls" so to speak. Women are effortless to attract.

Wow! Sounds wonderful man. It's only a matter of time before it will be like this for me.

@ Wildflower: it sounds like you have come a long way in a short amount of time! And with you saying that you're making new friends left and right and centre, it's reconfirming to you (and to us as well) that it is indeed happening and definitely true! As for me, I'm picking up speed finally. I'm starting stage 4 on Alpha Male on the 28th of Nov.

I haven't reported much, or been active much, on here recently. I browse daily, but I'm mad busy these days so don't get a lot of opportunity to sit down and report. A little update though; I added Seize the day to my play-list alongside Women Magnet about 3 weeks ago and it has been an absolute god send.

In many ways it has perhaps helped equally as much as both the Alpha Male set and Women Magnet. It has opened me up to a new found freedom; freedom from myself.

All needless worries vanish. The chain of persistent thoughts - both good and bad thought's - is completely broke free from. Reoccurring persistent thoughts which so often dictate our actions, our whole reality, become less interesting than being present. Consequently their power is diminished. Perception of reality and how I react to it is more flexible, spontaneous and durable.

I've had my first out of body experience since using Seize the day and I know the reason why Seize the day caused it.

I can effortlessly go into a transpersonal meditative state at will.

My psychological structure is more of a "reflex" mechanism now, in that it really is subconscious. My conscious mind feels less bound by my life scripts. We are a force to be reckoned with; my present, free conscious and my Alpha set trained subconscious.

I find myself very rarely bored. I enjoy what I'm doing to the fullest. Even the mundane, I give my full attention and find joy there. Socialising is a blast, studying is a blast, exercising is a blast, working is a blast. My whole life feels like a blast and I'm a lot better at everything I do. I'm never in need of an experience because my current experience is just fine.

What stage of Woman Magnet are you on Wildflower? Is there a "steady stream" of women entering your life?

This is wonderful to hear Wildflower! I've already had a few out of body experiences but you can control it! This is something wonderful to look forward to

I def. plan on adding seize the day as soon as I add women magnet as well for the first couple of months. then maybe do something with ultra success since I'm becoming more interested in making alot more money than I am now.