Subliminal Talk

I'm starting to doubt why I do things. I'm starting to notice that nearly everything I say our do has at least a tiny wanting people to like me. I guess that has to do with fear of being alone, or being punished our something. Ask day I just kinda felt "off" as cortez describes it. I'm just not quite myself there is more hesitation. On a positive note I think I let go of alot of wanting to control this program. I just am letting this program work and I'm not worrying about it so much. Last night I had a great moment of freedom. There has been a bunch of pressure on me in school and from my family and teachers. They all wanna know what I'm gonna be when I get older. They say that I can do anything I want but at the same time I know they dont believe that. They are basically forcing me into college. I always felt the need to please them or make them proud or something. Last night though was an incredibly freeing moment. I realized I can just be myself. I could do what I genuinely want to do with my life. I can do whay I want. I've been told that my whole life, but everyone has there own agenda for me. It's such a huge relief to understand that I have my own choices in life.

Alec,

I'm glad you've come to this realization yourself. So many people go through college or university for no intrinsic reason. It's just "the next step" but they have no idea why they're there. My son's mother has put incredible pressure on him to attend college, and I've spent considerable time discussing paths for his life that may or may not include college.

Above all, I've put the most effort into establishing that no matter what, I love him. I may not like his actions, and I may be irritated by his choices, but love is not something he need to earn from his father, and is not something which he is in danger of losing.

(11-13-2012, 02:51 PM)Sean Wrote: [ -> ]Alec,

I'm glad you've come to this realization yourself. So many people go through college or university for no intrinsic reason. It's just "the next step" but they have no idea why they're there. My son's mother has put incredible pressure on him to attend college, and I've spent considerable time discussing paths for his life that may or may not include college.

Above all, I've put the most effort into establishing that no matter what, I love him. I may not like his actions, and I may be irritated by his choices, but love is not something he need to earn from his father, and is not something which he is in danger of losing.

Yeah there is so much pressure for kids to college it's crazy. I've heard multiple teachers and principals say that the goal of the school is to get every person hours to college. It's kinda dumb. It's good that you tell youre kid that because there needs to be a little bit of balance I'm the discussion.

My days are getting better. I have been experiencing some doubt about the subliminal. I keep thinking that there is no possible way that this can get rid of all my fear. Maybe it's just my mind rebelling I don't know. It seems like every single day I'm seeing progress. It's very exciting. Like today I was just walking to my locker and all of a sudden I felt this great feeling of comfort. It felt like wherever I am I'm home. It was just really warm and nice. I'm hesitating less and living more. It is very cool, you can get away with alot more than you would think if you just do stuff without thinking.

My suggestion Alec is you use both the sub and the lefkoe method to eliminate beliefs that get in the way or has you want to please others.

I think that if you remove the belief that causes the fears , wanting approval, etc, the subliminal won't have to fight the other underlying beliefs and can be installed and kept longer if those beliefs are gone and don't get in the way.

Good day. The feelings of relaxation are back again. It just seems like lately I have been less and less anxious and in my head. More than anything it's just a feeling of comfort. Like everything is good. I can tell I dont care what people think as much. Now I am able to be by myself a do my own thing without much self consciousness. When I used to be alone I would be real nervous about people judging me and looking at me. Now I dont mind as much. I just am ready starting not to care what people think of me. I am able to express myself more without thinking about whay I'm doing. It's just like I'm automatically doing stuff.

I just looked up the lefkoe method. It seems alright just looking at the testimonials and stuff. You have probably gotten good results with it if youre recommending it to me too. How long have you been using it?

It's been around 2 weeks since I got it. The goal of the program is to eliminate the common beliefs that impaires confidence and causes us to want to seek approval instead of doing what we want. They have a free sample of eliminating beliefs on their website. I think you can get rid of 3 or 4 beliefs.

Results concerning confidence: - more brisk walk, I'm non-fidgety, less giving a **** about what others are feeling or thinking about me, more genuine listening, not taking things personally, when I make a mistake that annoying voice is way less self-demeaning or critical of me, less approval seeking or doing things for others to like me, joking around with others and but not fearing what they think like I usually do.

That's it for now. I'm focused on eliminating beliefs concerning Confidence, Procrastination, Socializing and I'll use a sub at the same time.

That happiness and joy sub is looking fantastic. I would love to do it. Anyone care to share there experiences with it?

(11-17-2012, 07:29 AM)Alec Wrote: [ -> ]That happiness and joy sub is looking fantastic. I would love to do it. Anyone care to share there experiences with it?

Theres 2 users a recall using it on here. I can't remember who at the moment though as my mind is hazy as hell. Do a search if you can.

Cortez has used it and had good experiences.

I did use it, It was a good one. I only used it for 32 days, but I probably could have used it a lot longer. I want to do t again. I could really use it again.

Hmmmmm..... I think I really wanna do alpha male. I'm not sure whether to buy it though. The last alpha male came out in january so I bet it will come out around that time. So I'm not sure if I should wait or just get the current one....decisions decisions

The way Shannon made it seem like by his posts it looks like it wasnt going to be made in 5th gen for a while. I dunno if its a matter of wanting to add a manifestor to it like what hes been experimenting with or if its a matter of working on other things.

We know SM2 will remain the benchmark for a while. As much as I'd like to see AM 6.0 (however it is named) I'd prefer to see other sets or single stages made/rebuilt.

I still see your reasoning though so maybe you can work on something else for the mean time (next 3-4 months).