09-13-2013, 06:27 AM
Personally, I'd say do what you want. If you want to use porn/drugs, do so in a way that will not interfere with your regular life. Start building a schedule that will have you out in the world. Save the porn for rainy days.
I've battled with this as well, and while I do think porn is a HUGE contributor to my anxiety and anti-socialness, I also believe that my lack of things to do outside my house contributes to this a LOT. I mean, I like porn a lot, but I want to become social. The solution? Scheduling. Schedule time for each and make it so that porn doesn't dominate your day.
As for your subliminal repertoire, it's quite impressive. Have you had any success with women in the real world? If not, then there's a good reason to stop right there. For me, if porn was stopping me from having success with women despite me going out and getting numbers/dates, then I would quit it entirely. But for now, I see no reason to stop, just to manage it.
But again, it's your life. What do you want it to be?
I've battled with this as well, and while I do think porn is a HUGE contributor to my anxiety and anti-socialness, I also believe that my lack of things to do outside my house contributes to this a LOT. I mean, I like porn a lot, but I want to become social. The solution? Scheduling. Schedule time for each and make it so that porn doesn't dominate your day.
As for your subliminal repertoire, it's quite impressive. Have you had any success with women in the real world? If not, then there's a good reason to stop right there. For me, if porn was stopping me from having success with women despite me going out and getting numbers/dates, then I would quit it entirely. But for now, I see no reason to stop, just to manage it.
But again, it's your life. What do you want it to be?
