01-14-2011, 07:31 AM
I use the release technique which is similar to the sedona method.While it does teaches to let go of wanting control,approval and feelings it does
so to get to a place of no reactivity and automatic responses.
It not about just letting go and stopping to use your common sense.
You can call girls on their behavior just without the getting angry at them and let whatever going to happen happen without projecting our expectations and lack on the situation which will eventually which will lead to less than optimal results.
We get swept away in other people's drama and negativity because we have negative feelings and emotional lacks.If people were happy and fulfilled they wouldn't play those games.
It's more like if someone slaps you,you can turn your head to the other side and get slapped again or you can kick their ass,but it's more of a conscious choice.
so to get to a place of no reactivity and automatic responses.
It not about just letting go and stopping to use your common sense.
You can call girls on their behavior just without the getting angry at them and let whatever going to happen happen without projecting our expectations and lack on the situation which will eventually which will lead to less than optimal results.
We get swept away in other people's drama and negativity because we have negative feelings and emotional lacks.If people were happy and fulfilled they wouldn't play those games.
It's more like if someone slaps you,you can turn your head to the other side and get slapped again or you can kick their ass,but it's more of a conscious choice.