nah thank you DssMaster for the offer but I don't think that I need it.
Why do you believe that? I guess that it is because you have seen obvious IOIs to you in my last journal entry.
I tell you something. If I decide to put those exact details in a journal entry, it is because I notice them very well too.
Your comment has the merit to make me think back the whole anecdote. The issue is not really what I see or not and to a certain extent, I don't think that IOIs really matter much.
It is a perfect example of a situation where I doubt, I don't go for what I want (or I don't want it bad enough), I may be concerned (if I am, it is not 100% conscious) of what her or others would think if I was pulling the trigger right there and then. Find excuses for not doing it through inner dialog.
Trying to figure out what she is thinking in her head to find out if it is "safe" or not to make a move is the opposite of what an alpha does. This is fear driven behavior. The alpha DGAF what others think and go for what he wants and let others decide how they react to the alpha desires.
I also have a love/hate relation with one of the program goals that says to let the women chase you. It is one thing to tease naughty a woman as if you were playing with a cat and a string to entice her enough to start chasing you but it is a totally different beast if you censure yourself from making a move and then justify the lack of action by telling yourself that she is the one who should chase you.
Why do you believe that? I guess that it is because you have seen obvious IOIs to you in my last journal entry.
I tell you something. If I decide to put those exact details in a journal entry, it is because I notice them very well too.
Your comment has the merit to make me think back the whole anecdote. The issue is not really what I see or not and to a certain extent, I don't think that IOIs really matter much.
It is a perfect example of a situation where I doubt, I don't go for what I want (or I don't want it bad enough), I may be concerned (if I am, it is not 100% conscious) of what her or others would think if I was pulling the trigger right there and then. Find excuses for not doing it through inner dialog.
Trying to figure out what she is thinking in her head to find out if it is "safe" or not to make a move is the opposite of what an alpha does. This is fear driven behavior. The alpha DGAF what others think and go for what he wants and let others decide how they react to the alpha desires.
I also have a love/hate relation with one of the program goals that says to let the women chase you. It is one thing to tease naughty a woman as if you were playing with a cat and a string to entice her enough to start chasing you but it is a totally different beast if you censure yourself from making a move and then justify the lack of action by telling yourself that she is the one who should chase you.
