I have been invited to go dinner at a mexican restaurant by my gf and my kids.
Our waitress was cute and adorable and she did take care of us very well. My type of girl but since I was with my gf, I did refrain from flirting with her (You'll see why this detail is important below).
At the end of the dinner, I got an icecream with nachos with a big mexican hat to highlight my birthday.
The kids did see baby foot soccer game and they wanted to play with it before we leave. It was getting late. I wasn't feeling for it but I have been convinced to go there. Apparently the barmaid is in charge of the game ball so I go see her and ask for her for the ball and then she told me that she cannot give it to me because the baby foot game is inside the section considered as the bar section and kids aren't allowed to be there.
No big deal se we head toward the exit. On my way out, I notice 3 young and sexy women at the bar having fun. When we are out, the kids now want to go see a fountain. Seeing that we won't head directly back home. I feel the need to go pee. So I tell family to go at the fountain, I need to go back in the restaurant to use their restroom. Now this is where the fun starts. I go to the restroom and on my way out, when I pass by the 3 hot girls at the bar, they open me and start chatting with me. So, ok, I must admit, I was flattered by the attention and did like it. Tell me what you think but it could either be that I was kinda peacocking like Mystery with the big fat ridiculous mexican hat or SM3 made the girls attracted to me. I wonder if they did notice me the first time that I did pass by but refrained from talking to me because I was with my family. I did ask them how old they were and they told me 21. That is one good aspect of hanging in bar, sometime I refrain from talking to a woman because she looks young. In a bar, it is a pretty safe assumption that everyone is an adult (too bad that I don't like much going at bars...) If I would have been on my own. Most likely than not, I would have stayed a bit with them.
Outside the restaurant. 2 other young cute women jump on me. They said: Hey look, there is an awesome man with a mexican hat. He must be having fire. I told them no. I don't have fire. But they stick around and start flirting with me. Again, I'm holding back my desire to flirt back because my gf and kids and not far away but I keep socializing with these cut girls. Then, at the corner of an eye, I see my gf witnessing the whole thing and she doesn't seem too happy. So I say goodbye to the girls and I go see the gf. It takes few mins to calm her down. She didn't even mentionned the 2 girls that I was with outside the restaurant. She thinks that I found an excuse to go back in the restaurant to exchange contact info with the waitress. No idea if she saw something in the way the waitress was looking at me during the meal. Maybe... Women are perceptive to that type things more than men. But the point is, I'm honest with my journal and my real intent was only to go to the restroom and I'm extra carefull to act respectfully when I am with her. She accepted the fact that I may have women on the side as long as I'm discreet about it and not doing it in front of her. I definitely need to have another discussion about that event with her to clarify that with her. If I'm 100% transparent with her about what I am doing and we have an agreement. I need to have her trusting me that I'm respecting the agreement.
Takeaway: It is so funny about how much action and thinking that I have been doing during the last few entries about approaching and that I have been hit on easily by 5 girls that are exactly the type of girls that I want to have casual sex with...
I guess SM3 is for something for that nice surprise...
Our waitress was cute and adorable and she did take care of us very well. My type of girl but since I was with my gf, I did refrain from flirting with her (You'll see why this detail is important below).
At the end of the dinner, I got an icecream with nachos with a big mexican hat to highlight my birthday.
The kids did see baby foot soccer game and they wanted to play with it before we leave. It was getting late. I wasn't feeling for it but I have been convinced to go there. Apparently the barmaid is in charge of the game ball so I go see her and ask for her for the ball and then she told me that she cannot give it to me because the baby foot game is inside the section considered as the bar section and kids aren't allowed to be there.
No big deal se we head toward the exit. On my way out, I notice 3 young and sexy women at the bar having fun. When we are out, the kids now want to go see a fountain. Seeing that we won't head directly back home. I feel the need to go pee. So I tell family to go at the fountain, I need to go back in the restaurant to use their restroom. Now this is where the fun starts. I go to the restroom and on my way out, when I pass by the 3 hot girls at the bar, they open me and start chatting with me. So, ok, I must admit, I was flattered by the attention and did like it. Tell me what you think but it could either be that I was kinda peacocking like Mystery with the big fat ridiculous mexican hat or SM3 made the girls attracted to me. I wonder if they did notice me the first time that I did pass by but refrained from talking to me because I was with my family. I did ask them how old they were and they told me 21. That is one good aspect of hanging in bar, sometime I refrain from talking to a woman because she looks young. In a bar, it is a pretty safe assumption that everyone is an adult (too bad that I don't like much going at bars...) If I would have been on my own. Most likely than not, I would have stayed a bit with them.
Outside the restaurant. 2 other young cute women jump on me. They said: Hey look, there is an awesome man with a mexican hat. He must be having fire. I told them no. I don't have fire. But they stick around and start flirting with me. Again, I'm holding back my desire to flirt back because my gf and kids and not far away but I keep socializing with these cut girls. Then, at the corner of an eye, I see my gf witnessing the whole thing and she doesn't seem too happy. So I say goodbye to the girls and I go see the gf. It takes few mins to calm her down. She didn't even mentionned the 2 girls that I was with outside the restaurant. She thinks that I found an excuse to go back in the restaurant to exchange contact info with the waitress. No idea if she saw something in the way the waitress was looking at me during the meal. Maybe... Women are perceptive to that type things more than men. But the point is, I'm honest with my journal and my real intent was only to go to the restroom and I'm extra carefull to act respectfully when I am with her. She accepted the fact that I may have women on the side as long as I'm discreet about it and not doing it in front of her. I definitely need to have another discussion about that event with her to clarify that with her. If I'm 100% transparent with her about what I am doing and we have an agreement. I need to have her trusting me that I'm respecting the agreement.
Takeaway: It is so funny about how much action and thinking that I have been doing during the last few entries about approaching and that I have been hit on easily by 5 girls that are exactly the type of girls that I want to have casual sex with...
I guess SM3 is for something for that nice surprise...
