Yesterday was an interesting day in relation with SM3 journey. That is what I love about running a sub program. Because it shift your perception, an ordinary day becomes an adventure. I haven't done much yet with all the things in my head, it made my day awesome.
First, I went to the grocery store.
First observation, I was seeing attractive women everywhere that I look. I don't think that there was more attractive women than usual but simply that my awareness for that has increased.
Second, while I'm very outgoing and very social, I need to have an open window, a subtile invitation to chat with strangers. It can be eye contact, a smile. We bump into each other and I have something funny to comment on the ongoing situation. Otherwise, I don't know what to say. I have seen 3 hot women and I just didn't go talk to them because I did not have any cue. One was moving fast and didn't look at all in my direction. Another one was with her young daughter. I then came up with BS excuses to not go see them such as... You don't go flirt with a woman that is with her kid. I'm pretty sure that this is doable... Maybe we can call that social intelligence but it could also be some confidence shortcomings... IOW, I'm playing it safe. I guess that if I had something simple to say. Like a formula... ie: I just saw you, and I did think that you look adorable (aka sexy) so I just wanted to meet you real quick... I would do it.
That aside, I have been more cocky and naughty with female staff than usual... 2 examples of that that comes to mind was when I got stopped by a lady working in a free samples kiosk. She did ask me to take a picture of her to provide a proof to her boss that she has been there (I guess this is part of the job procedure). I suggested to make a selfie with both of us in the pic. I then asked her to send me the picture. So She has my phone # and I got her... She was a bit old and I have no intention to follow up this but I was stunned that what I did came out of the blue and is certainly something that I can redo easily to keep in touch with attractive women that cross my path. Keeping in touch with women that I am attracted to is possibly my #1 hurdle to get the success that I want. Because otherwise, I can easily create positive reactions in the opposite gender... The other example was I was bantering when claiming a free lotory ticket that I have won and a female cashier working in the following lane did overheard what I was saying and she couldn't resist giggling and stopping her job to turn in my direction and chime in into what I was saying... To me, this is proof of my newly found magnetic power...
Finally, it seems like I have new assumptions about women. For instance, I was working outside in the front of my property and some woman was walking on the other side of the street was looking in my direction. I quickly came to the conclusion that it was because I was her type and was looking at me with lust.
So far so good. I enjoy what the program does...
First, I went to the grocery store.
First observation, I was seeing attractive women everywhere that I look. I don't think that there was more attractive women than usual but simply that my awareness for that has increased.
Second, while I'm very outgoing and very social, I need to have an open window, a subtile invitation to chat with strangers. It can be eye contact, a smile. We bump into each other and I have something funny to comment on the ongoing situation. Otherwise, I don't know what to say. I have seen 3 hot women and I just didn't go talk to them because I did not have any cue. One was moving fast and didn't look at all in my direction. Another one was with her young daughter. I then came up with BS excuses to not go see them such as... You don't go flirt with a woman that is with her kid. I'm pretty sure that this is doable... Maybe we can call that social intelligence but it could also be some confidence shortcomings... IOW, I'm playing it safe. I guess that if I had something simple to say. Like a formula... ie: I just saw you, and I did think that you look adorable (aka sexy) so I just wanted to meet you real quick... I would do it.
That aside, I have been more cocky and naughty with female staff than usual... 2 examples of that that comes to mind was when I got stopped by a lady working in a free samples kiosk. She did ask me to take a picture of her to provide a proof to her boss that she has been there (I guess this is part of the job procedure). I suggested to make a selfie with both of us in the pic. I then asked her to send me the picture. So She has my phone # and I got her... She was a bit old and I have no intention to follow up this but I was stunned that what I did came out of the blue and is certainly something that I can redo easily to keep in touch with attractive women that cross my path. Keeping in touch with women that I am attracted to is possibly my #1 hurdle to get the success that I want. Because otherwise, I can easily create positive reactions in the opposite gender... The other example was I was bantering when claiming a free lotory ticket that I have won and a female cashier working in the following lane did overheard what I was saying and she couldn't resist giggling and stopping her job to turn in my direction and chime in into what I was saying... To me, this is proof of my newly found magnetic power...
Finally, it seems like I have new assumptions about women. For instance, I was working outside in the front of my property and some woman was walking on the other side of the street was looking in my direction. I quickly came to the conclusion that it was because I was her type and was looking at me with lust.
So far so good. I enjoy what the program does...
