05-24-2017, 02:12 AM
(05-23-2017, 06:24 PM)ffaux Wrote: Stage 6
I need to find ways to love everyone instead of just one so that the intensity is diffused. How to do this however, I'm not so sure.
When I read the quote I immediately thought of this:
"I need to find ways to love MYSELF instead of trying to project love (I dont feel for myself) onto someone else"
(it is kind of a reversal Byron Katie might do with her work).
Two weeks ago you postet about your fragile ego. I am not sure if a fragile ego always goes hand in hand with lack of self-love (guess so) and in that case you might want to work on that first. I think as soon as you love yourself deeply you are able to show others real love that is not overwhelming nor inappropriate.
I also poured a lot of love over my ex and expected her to love me back evenly. Sometimes she did and the world felt complete but when she didnt I felt like crap. Not a good position to be in. Its the behaviour of a clingy beta.
Quote:Being in love is such an amazing feeling and I just want to feel that with someone I can trust not to hurt me.
Wouldnt it be great if you constantly felt self-love? Because the only person who you can completly trust and that will never hurt you may in fact be yourself.
Or at least that is one of the goals of AM6, right?
Quote:But I think this is too much to ask from someone.
I think you attract people that match your own vibrancy. As soon as you are able to pour the deep love you want to give a woman first over yourself then you might attract women who love you just as much. And then you can love them from a position of already feeling great instead of needing them as a source of happiness.
Self love is a bullet point on the AM6 salespage. So you are already on your way.