09-01-2018, 11:21 AM
(09-01-2018, 08:24 AM)cataleya Wrote:(09-01-2018, 06:58 AM)mat422 Wrote:(09-01-2018, 06:28 AM)cataleya Wrote: So I was thinking if it had anything to do with US/LM. Maybe it`s working on that? The unpleasant feelings I associate when being the center of attention. Maybe my subconscious is afraid that if I become successful and lucky I will become the center of attention and it doesn`t like that.
Fear of being the center of attention is a tricky one. It could be a lot of things. Why do you think you fear being the center of attention?
Not sure...I guess the fear of messing things up, looking like an idiot. Although I can`t recall a time I actually messed up something really bad when I was being the center of attention. At least not I don`t remember it consciously.
It's very possible that you did mess up something in the past and received some kind of unpleasant emotional conditioning. Could be childhood related. The funny thing about these fears is consciously we think of really big traumatic events. But sometimes it's a few minor events as a kid all strung together that just forms a line of thinking that we attach to. So now the subconscious is saying "hey remember those few times this happened? Yeah lets not do anything that will put us in that position again."
The interesting thing though is there's no one single solution to it. I could see a lot of ways to approach this issue, but ultimately your mind will know best and figure out the optimal solution for yourself.
INFP
