UMS Journal THolt

[Shannon]

It sounds like you're potentially coming across as needy and desperate, and scaring people off for what you want.  This would point to an inner fear of being unlikable, since you tend to create what you focus on, and you tend to focus on your fears.

@Shannon

I have been working on not becoming across as needy and desperate. I am lot better than I used to be on this. Still I feel like I don't make strong impressions in social situations.  I'm not as outgoing as I want to be .


Could I use USLM 4.2 to overcome this issue or should I wait for a more comprehensive socializing sub to come out that would focus on these fears?

I think a socializing sub would be much better for this purpose, but since that won't be out until after the v4.2 of USLM, might as well give them both a try.

Shannon should I stop UMS now for USLM 4.2? 

Also would the socializing sub have a celebrity effect that would make it easier to make friends?

I don't know when USLM 4.2 will be built.  I don't know what to tell you on that.

I think the socializing sub having a powerful FRM would make it easier for you to make friends.  The celebrity effect will fade when you stop using the program, but the effects of the FRM should not.  You will do better keeping any friends you make if you're not making friends because of a temporary celebrity effect.