Transcendental Sith Lord's OFv3 Journal

[DarthXedonias]

I noticed the same thing.  When I was dating multiple women at a time, I would always tell them that up front, flat out, and make sure they understood.  And most of the time, I would end up with them either accusing me of cheating, causing drama because they didn't believe me in the beginning, lying to me and or breaking the rules we had both agreed to in the beginning of the relationship.

I think most women just don't believe it, can't imagine it, and then can't handle it when they realize you weren't just boasting or something like that.

It's highly annoying honestly. You spend all that time explaining what you want then make sure they understand then later on they have surprised Pikachu face when they realize you were serious -eye roll-. There is something interesting concerning the "Kath" girl when it comes to that. She believed me right away and was kind of hesitant but I pushed for us still having an relationship. Funny enough the 3 previous boyfriend's she had all cheated on her. I think she felt differently about me because at least from the beginning I wasn't hiding what I wanted from the beginning and she knew what to expect. She's ok with it all she just doesn't want to do the threesome stuff and she doesn't want to hear about my "exploits". Other than that she is fine. 

As for the other chick funny how I think it has worked out in my favor because with no fear I let her know I won't put up with her bad attitude, I don't "need" her, and she isn't some "special snow flake", I can replace her with someone just as good looking but with an better attitude. I think those things just drove her crazy. "This guy won't worship the ground I walk on and is willing to walk away" lol. I've seen a lot more better attitude from her lately. A lot more quiet and we'll behaved. I already know she's used to the opposite because she has said she's had men offering to give her huge amounts of money in the past as an monthly allowance to date her yet she just turned up her nose at them or used them as orbiters. None of them are around to this Day. 

It's funny how now I naturally don't give a shit and if your going to bring drama into my life I can naturally just cut someone off. I can't even comprehend anymore why I was so needy before. It was quite honestly pathetic and did nothing for me.