11-09-2016, 05:42 AM
First thing I want to say is I'm going to do my best not to hype this up. A lot of frustrations in the past had to do with having an idealized version of myself that I would reach after AM and when I failed I took it hard. I have no doubt this program is going to do good things for me and I'm grateful for any and all changes that help improve my life.
I believe E2 has guided me to running AM again. What I realized was even though I felt that I accepted myself more and things were better, I still lacked this toughness or assertiveness. No matter how much I wanted to not believe it, the world tends to be a harsh place. I lacked the skills and mindset to defend against those who seek to manipulate me. As an idealist I constantly hold a vision of the world in my head that reflects my own values, sometimes it hurts to see that simple things like kindness and respect are thrown out the window. At that point it doesn't matter how much you accept yourself, if you don't put these people in their place they will continue to walk all over you. This is part of my growth as a man, understanding that there are unwritten rules about how the world works and how people operate and if I ignore these and keep living in some fantasy land I'm going to be continually stepped on. It's a bitter truth, but I'd rather rise above it all than be stuck in it constantly wishing for the world to be different.
I believe E2 has guided me to running AM again. What I realized was even though I felt that I accepted myself more and things were better, I still lacked this toughness or assertiveness. No matter how much I wanted to not believe it, the world tends to be a harsh place. I lacked the skills and mindset to defend against those who seek to manipulate me. As an idealist I constantly hold a vision of the world in my head that reflects my own values, sometimes it hurts to see that simple things like kindness and respect are thrown out the window. At that point it doesn't matter how much you accept yourself, if you don't put these people in their place they will continue to walk all over you. This is part of my growth as a man, understanding that there are unwritten rules about how the world works and how people operate and if I ignore these and keep living in some fantasy land I'm going to be continually stepped on. It's a bitter truth, but I'd rather rise above it all than be stuck in it constantly wishing for the world to be different.