06-22-2013, 10:01 AM
(This post was last modified: 06-22-2013, 10:02 AM by TheGraduate.)
I have been using Overcoming Approach Anxiety for about 3 weeks and I added ASC 4G into the mix about about week and a half ago.
I am doing OAA ultrasonic while I sleep for about 8 hours and ASC for about 4 hours on headphones during the day.
I think these have been working quite nicely. Although it is still fairly early yet, I have noticed improvement.
A decrease in guilt, shame, or regret type thinking. Actually almost to the point where there is none at all. I have also seen an added confidence. It is a little deceiving because the increase in confidence feels fairly subtle and natural so I almost didn't notice it. But if I step back and really look at the situation there has definitely been an increase. And if you think about it, wouldn't it be better if the change was smooth and feels like you have always been that way? My answer to that is yes.
Last night I started conversations with a bunch of people and approached 3 or 4 women. I ended up making out with a very cute girl.
This is not something I normally do. In fact I generally look down on people who make out in bars. Mainly because I have always seen it as trashy. And although I still see it as trashy, I did it anyway, mainly because the girl was so into me and so giving me obvious signals that she wanted to get physical with me, that it was only natural, at that moment, that we make out a little. Put it this way, it wasn't one of those situations where it was two sloppy drunk people making out at the end of the night because they are both bored, desperate, and drunk. It was more focused and sober than that, if you know what I mean.
Also another strange thing that I couldn't quite figure out. My friend I were sitting at the bar and all of a sudden a group of really hot young girls walk up and start hanging around us like we are cat nip. At first I didn't believe it and thought they just wanted to get drinks, but it started to become obvious that they were purposely hanging around us. Meanwhile there were a million guys all around us trying to get the girls attention and the girls just didn't care and were just focusing on us.
Then after we started talking to them, a little while later I got up from my stool and started to talking to this blonde, next thing you know I have 4 women, three of which were totally hot, surrounding me fighting for my attention. It was insane. One of them was rubbing her leg up against me and I was totally surrounded by them.
One of the girls was a swimsuit model and was showing me pictures of herself. She actually turned me off because she was so full of her self and also posing for me (sign of insecurity) even though her body was ridiculously nice. But it was one of the other girls (a more down to earth fun one) but also really attractive, who I made out with.
I'm not really sure how to describe this over the top attention I was getting and it's hard to believe that it would just be my confidence that caused it, but I do believe my increased confidence played a significant part.
I give credit to the ASC and OAA that I was able to have the confidence and lack of shame or guilt that might normally stop me from being in the moment and taking action.
I have to say that I have also been consciously taking action with approaching women. I feel that this is necessary when doing a sub program. Sitting home doing nothing won't allow the sub to fully take effect so I feel that going out and attempting to take action in the direction that the sub is focusing is very important.
This is a bit in the early stages so I will come back and add an addendum to this once I get more time in, but I thought I would put in a good word because I feel that these programs are having a positive impact on me in subtle but powerful ways.
Kudos to you Shannon and thank you for creating a solid product.
I am doing OAA ultrasonic while I sleep for about 8 hours and ASC for about 4 hours on headphones during the day.
I think these have been working quite nicely. Although it is still fairly early yet, I have noticed improvement.
A decrease in guilt, shame, or regret type thinking. Actually almost to the point where there is none at all. I have also seen an added confidence. It is a little deceiving because the increase in confidence feels fairly subtle and natural so I almost didn't notice it. But if I step back and really look at the situation there has definitely been an increase. And if you think about it, wouldn't it be better if the change was smooth and feels like you have always been that way? My answer to that is yes.
Last night I started conversations with a bunch of people and approached 3 or 4 women. I ended up making out with a very cute girl.
This is not something I normally do. In fact I generally look down on people who make out in bars. Mainly because I have always seen it as trashy. And although I still see it as trashy, I did it anyway, mainly because the girl was so into me and so giving me obvious signals that she wanted to get physical with me, that it was only natural, at that moment, that we make out a little. Put it this way, it wasn't one of those situations where it was two sloppy drunk people making out at the end of the night because they are both bored, desperate, and drunk. It was more focused and sober than that, if you know what I mean.
Also another strange thing that I couldn't quite figure out. My friend I were sitting at the bar and all of a sudden a group of really hot young girls walk up and start hanging around us like we are cat nip. At first I didn't believe it and thought they just wanted to get drinks, but it started to become obvious that they were purposely hanging around us. Meanwhile there were a million guys all around us trying to get the girls attention and the girls just didn't care and were just focusing on us.
Then after we started talking to them, a little while later I got up from my stool and started to talking to this blonde, next thing you know I have 4 women, three of which were totally hot, surrounding me fighting for my attention. It was insane. One of them was rubbing her leg up against me and I was totally surrounded by them.
One of the girls was a swimsuit model and was showing me pictures of herself. She actually turned me off because she was so full of her self and also posing for me (sign of insecurity) even though her body was ridiculously nice. But it was one of the other girls (a more down to earth fun one) but also really attractive, who I made out with.
I'm not really sure how to describe this over the top attention I was getting and it's hard to believe that it would just be my confidence that caused it, but I do believe my increased confidence played a significant part.
I give credit to the ASC and OAA that I was able to have the confidence and lack of shame or guilt that might normally stop me from being in the moment and taking action.
I have to say that I have also been consciously taking action with approaching women. I feel that this is necessary when doing a sub program. Sitting home doing nothing won't allow the sub to fully take effect so I feel that going out and attempting to take action in the direction that the sub is focusing is very important.
This is a bit in the early stages so I will come back and add an addendum to this once I get more time in, but I thought I would put in a good word because I feel that these programs are having a positive impact on me in subtle but powerful ways.
Kudos to you Shannon and thank you for creating a solid product.
Anyway, normally I don't read forum posts much but I enjoyed this.
