04-27-2011, 07:08 PM
Quote:I like, "You're welcome to join me if you like"... I'd rather use that over "Wanna come with?" because it may give her a reason to say no by asking a direct question. Instead, "You're welcome to join me if you like", puts it into her head that it would be great for her to join but there is no pressure because you don't care whether or not she says yes or no. It just seems more comforting in that regard. And I've read that you should never directly give a woman a simple choice of yes or no... Because that just gives her more chance to say no.
Of course after finishing alpha we really shouldn't even care about a woman saying no to us. But for the time being that sounds like a good thing to keep in mind. I feel like the more I internalize this alpha mindset the less I need women in my life so I'm more free to do whatever I please.
