09-03-2016, 07:02 PM
(09-03-2016, 06:00 PM)Shannon Wrote: I believe you should simply tell her that you are realizing that in the past you've done things differently because of a fear of genuine intimacy, and she is bringing up that fear because she is someone you feel for genuinely, and please bear with me while I try to sort this out, because you are someone I really like and I think we could have something really good if I can let go of this trauma from my past experiences.
Shannon, you have much more experience with women than I do. I thought that saying something like this to a girl, especially before having sex with her, equals death in terms of attraction.
Maybe I'm missing something. Why is it okay to say something like that?