(11-11-2016, 02:56 PM)Hercules Wrote:(11-10-2016, 09:02 PM)bits Wrote: Yea I wouldn't just leave or kick out girls for 3 reasons, 1) it's just a dick move 2) ends any future hookups making it impossible for you to have any legitimate "abundance" 3) girls tell each other everything, suddenly a great hookup becomes "he used me and he's an asshole" and you'll never hookup with her friends
Very few women are crazy and the ones that are you can spot pretty quick, if a woman pushes for a relationship it's simply a matter a case of saying no. After a handful of hookups they push it that way but if you shut it down quick it will only be an issue 1 or 2 times in your lifetime if even that. I've had chicks annoy me with too many calls and texts but never any actual crazy behavior.
Wrong. This shows that you have other options and a set of nuts along with a spine which many western men lack. When girls call you an asshole they secretly like you. This should be obvious by now.
Women will already know if you have options or a spine long before they sleep with you, guys who don't have options are needy and supplicating don't get laid, guys who do have options are indifferent and have boundaries and do get laid. If she didn't think you had options then she wouldn't sleep with you. If she does then you should be approaching hotter women because you're obviously punching below your level if women think other women don't want you but still sleep with you.
And yea when a girl calls you an asshole it's good, when she tells other people you're an asshole behind your back she's not only burning her bridge to you but the bridge of her friends to you. I'm not saying you can't get results like that but the guys who I know that run that "asshole" type game have very spotty results and tons of drama in their life. They have to constantly find new women, get flaked on, have rumors spread, not be trusted etc.
Compare that to a guy whos more laid back and "nice" - he shows up to a party having 2 women in his phone ready to hookup with him again this weekend, slept with 2 of the girls in a group of 5 already who say he's awesome, and another newly single girl in the group whos looking to have some fun tonight. Which would you rather be?