08-07-2026, 12:08 PM
(08-06-2026, 12:28 PM)Sir Ovaltine Jenkins III Wrote: I already posted this on the “after AM7 is finished what would you like to see created thread but I wanted to post it here as well so it doesn’t get lost and to get other peoples thoughts on it as well.
What would you (obviously this includes Shannon but anyone else as well), think of a sexuality healing subliminal with the goal to allow the user to fully express/embody their sexuality in authentic, healthy ways in their relationships?
Essentially the goals would be to work through all forms of sexual/relationship trauma as well as limiting beliefs the user has about their sexuality. This would include all forms or suppression/repression that stops the listener from expressing themselves fully in healthy ways and being comfortable with themselves as sexual beings.
The ultimate goal behind this however, would allow the user to be able to show up in romantic relationships as healthy, whole and complete. Therefore, modules on helping the user move towards a form of a secure attachment style and away from anxious or avoidant styles that inhibit authentic connection with potential partners.
Other aspects would include:
self esteem optimization,
moving away from escapism techniques (ie. Porn/masturbation),
easing approach anxiety (especially for hard cases who can’t even talk to people they’re attracted to), also relationship anxiety in general (especially for avoidant/anxious types),
Working towards relationships based on mutual and authentic respect, love, trust and connection
And probably a lot of others I haven’t even thought of haha.
I know it’s not the sexiest idea (pun intended) and that some of these are kind of addressed in other programs such as PRA, OFSG, OSC, and a little bit in DMSI but after reading through a lot of posts on the forum as well as my own experiences with some of these subs, I think a program dedicated purely to sexual/relationship healing might be a great addition.
This could especially work as a precursor to programs more focused on outer world sexual goals like DMSI, X4A series, and Attract your perfect Romantic or Sexual Partner. It might help users to stop stonewalling or subconsciously sabotaging their goals with these as well.
This sounds like a really valuable sub to me. Good for "prep work" for people that have the patience and compatible goals for it, but I'm more seeing it from lens of someone who's already been in a relationship for a long time. Self expression and showing up might be subdued, and attachment styles might need improving, etc. Could have an optional module like "if you have a partner, naturally know the best way to guide and let them express and show up, and do that".
Thoughts, opinions and beliefs subject to change without prior notice.

