Shannon's Journal Discussion Thread, Vol. 8

[4Kingdoms]

That aside... your suggestions as to what to build are appreciated, but I think you're overlooking something.  Manifest Your Ideal Sexual Lover is the granddaddy of them all.  All of those more specific ones are just the children of this title, trying to limit it in some way to get one specific feature.

Is it really though? if by "ideal sexual lover" you mean the woman that gives you the best sex possible and you have the most amazing sexual compatibility with and she's head over heels in love with you also and made things super easy for you...but she is a 6...then it wouldn't be what a lot of guys want.

I think most guys have had relationships where the sex was amazing but we either cheated or were left unsatisfied because she wasn't as attractive as we wanted.

I would dare say that most guys would want the "extremely beautiful/attractive/gorgeous" lover and stats prove this as men that has always been the #1 factor when it comes to women (looks).

So I dare say one could attract the perfect sexual lover but in some way not be satisfied due to her looks.  And since we are leaving it up to the subconscious it's probable she will be the best sexual lover but not extremely beautiful as that was not specified in the sub.

But anyway I think it's great news that we are getting a MYP sub and hopefully we can have a whole range in the library once more.  Some of the titles I can think of..

MYP extremely beautiful/attractive/gorgeous lover
MYP young lover (it would be specified in the sub she would be 18 and over to early 20s not over 23).
MYP blonde lover
MYP oriental lover
MYP red head lover
MYP black lover
MYP virgin lover
MYP wife

When I was in my 20's I had dates with beautiful women and sadly they did not have sex with me, what's the point of being together?  

30 years later, I'm 58 y/o and when I talk to men in their 20's, 30's, & 40's they are complaining about the same thing, "She's beautiful, but she won't have sex with me." or "She's beautiful, but we don't talk, she has no personality."

To each his own... Beauty or Sex
or as @Determined suggests: See her as a person.

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I believe "See her as a person" comes with maturity.