Shannon, help me ......

[enoch]

..I am about to choose my course of action..

Suggesting these things I wish I had done earlier in my life and for myself to remind what I should be doing when I'm distracted:

• Perhaps the most important is to defer actively getting with women while working on yourself. I very well know that it is very hard to do especially at 21yo. Consider this perspective: you have 9 years until 30. Give the next 3 years solely to yourself. Improve yourself. Become wiser.
  
  How do I improve myself I hear you ask? Well couple of things I listed in the rest of the bullet points below and there is the internet. Here is a freebie https://www.quora.com/search?q=improve+myself
  
  This man figured it out a couple hundred years ago: https://41.media.tumblr.com/db64d2ac060e...o1_500.png print this out, put this up wherever you lay your eyes on when you open them first thing in the morning e.g. ceiling, bathroom mirror, cellphone.
  
  On a side note, past iterations of AM (excluding AM6) did not have lead-in for SM. This was changed due to demand for attracting women while using AM, I am guilty myself but now I can see why Shannon held the stance for previous AMs, it is a distraction and should be a side effect of what you are trying to become anyway. And magnets were created for this reason, as a complement to AM.
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• Run AM thrice at minimum, consecutively or taking breaks running ASC or DAOS in between. I say this because when I started I figured I need to remove insecurity and negativity so I ran AM2011 and then thinking I was stable enough I did Grow Taller 3G. In hindsight this was a painful lesson. I was constantly having negativity about the effectiveness of the sub, height insecurities running rampant and girls I like rejecting me all in a year I spent listening. I was about the same you are now minus the body and the girl... and 4cm less (116lbs/163cm). I remember how awful I feel when I have to buy clothes in the kids department (and damn, why are kids clothes selection fucking sucks? LOL). Could've run the newer AM5 twice for that amount of time to drastically reduce insecurity and negativity (my current state, very peaceful although why is it that AM stage 4 always drives me to depression?) and then Grow Taller (5G nowadays) although after running these DAOS-AM2011-GT3G-AM5-AOS4G-WM2-BASE5G-AM6 my priority has changed to building wealth. Women and my height doesn't faze me anymore than missing/starting late of what I want to actually do in life when I'm not distracted by those two.
  
  Here is an inspirational thread for committing to sub for a couple years, see his before and after pictures: http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-2565.html amongst many here. Also checkout Ben's video http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-5484-p...l#pid88078
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• Read and/or watch. I cannot stress this enough. There are threads here with suggestions, this is one of them http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-5620-post-77865.html
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• Repeat after me, Financial Independence. Maybe you are rich. Maybe not. Whatever the case, when it comes to money learn how to acquire and manage it efficiently.
  • http://www.madfientist.com/
    
  • http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/all-the-p...g-of-time/
    
  • http://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/
    
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• Desentisize yourself against height criticisms and other things--CAVEAT: it might frustrate you or make you angry. But at this point in my life I find these hilarious.
  • https://twitter.com/heightismxposed
    
  • http://someimage.com/FZ4n
    
  • more of those: https://www.google.com/search?q=twitter+...1&ie=UTF-8
    
  • might make you feel better: https://www.reddit.com/r/short/
    
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• Finally, I am reluctant to add this but Discover the Red Pill. In a nutshell, it is about realizing the status quo, where you stand and then utilize whatever it is to succeed your goal in this environment. Mostly about understanding the nature of women and becoming a man. You will encounter misogynists, be labeled or criticized as such and maybe become one yourself but it is all a part of process.
  • Required reading: http://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-r...-year-one/
    
  • Read the side bar https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comm..._red_pill/
    

With that said, you read like me about 4 years ago and I just got something to say...

I agree,yes, and I do realise it's all the beliefs and about being a man but how many 175-180-185 cm women would date a shorter guy,even if he is the best man they have ever met ? Minority.The minority of the minority,actually. Let's be realists here.And to make the matters worse, women my age (21) are very rarely shorter or as high as me..VERY RARELY.

You are right. Very true.

it all sounds very nice 'what you believe you achieve' but I can't actually control women's beliefs on height . Which are something along the lines of 'yeah, he is a great guy, the greatest ever, but only if he wasn't so short.It will be ridiculous when we kiss when we hug when we have sex .Standing next to him, I will feel ridiculous and others may ridicule me.And I want tall children.. and so on...)

You are right, again. But then, when you are ready young neo, you don't need to control women's beliefs.

I've gone out and had sex with more taller women than shorter women relative to me, it was awkward and unnerving but I figured I am taller horizontally. hehe

Seriously, they might--and will judge you at first but if you don't give a shit, they will not give a shit once they are emotionally invested. Game works. And Subliminal works

I would add that if they feel strongly against dating a man shorter than their perceived standard height, move on. Why the fuck would you be with a woman who doesn't want to be with you. Neither of you is going to be happy.

I bet you are not a short guy man, because you posted this . You don't know what it is, seriously..It destroys me every single day and minute.. once when I said I was 21 a woman said 'i couldn't guess you are more than 16' and she is right, this is the honest truth, no matter how we reframe it, this is how I look, even though I am musculary ripped as a 20+ guy.. when i Get 30 it will be the same..looking like a teen.. ridiculous.

Boo hoo, woe is me... check out what others have to say: http://someimage.com/FZ4n

You simply can't see how that is not ridiculous. I get mistaken for a teen, too... so I grew my beard.

How can my inner reality be strong when my outer reality based on my height will always be bad, no matter what..

When you accept your shortcomings (lol) and focus on other things.

I wonder if I get to a point where I've got rid of the insecurity and run a magnet, would most tall girls be SO attracted that they would disregard the height and date me?

You got to learn about the sexual marketplace and invest accordingly.

Or maybe, If I run grow taller, is it possible that I have a huge potential to grow which was for some reason stunt till now, or I will grow just half an inch? Is it possible that I can grow 2-3-4 inches as an undeveloped genetic potential?

Maybe, try it out now but you will have to fight a lot of negativity from yourself.
I strongly advise you against using Grow Taller when you are not emotionally stable especially with height insecurities.

What I most wonder however is how Shannon handles things when he is attracted to a taller girl and what are his experiences with tall girls.

I'd take a guess and say, he doesn't give a shit what the girl thinks about him but rather what he thinks about the girl. In other words, the [taller] girl is attracted to him.


I realize I sound condescending, I don't know much about you and this is what I wish someone slapped me with when I was younger.