SM v3 so far so good

[AfzalG]

Man I am getting so much attention from women these days, there are so much interactions. But it seems that i try to fight the program with my conscious mind. The behaviour of humans is controlled 90% by the subconscious so there is still 10% that is trying to sabotage you. I mean i met my ex and she insisted to pay the diner and drinks for me, and i agreed but felt bad or guilty i thought thats not gentlemen like but then i think fuck it men pay all the time, if women pay for me thats exactly what sm is supposed to do =D


I also noticed that i am lost when i date a women, when i have sex i am a real pro its as if i worked as a pornstar, but while dating i am lost, thats the reason i want to run wm... i think i will get more sex if i get better in socializing and dating...

I hope my conscious resistence will get weaker...with time

[risingwarrior]

Out of curiosity, how old are you Afzal?

[AfzalG]

like mentioned in my journal i am 23...

[risingwarrior]

Okay, thanks. I guess I overlooked that..But great progress so far man, keep it up

[AfzalG]

ps: did i mention that my ex asked me if i became gay?

[Clansy]

Send her photos with strip dancer or dancerS, speaks more that words!

[IronSmooth]

ps: did i mention that my ex asked me if i became gay?

Why do you think she did that?
Maybe she felt like she had to test your confidence?
lol

[risingwarrior]

Those are just shit tests, only given to guys whom they're attracted to. Keep calm and carry on.

[AfzalG]

I have read in a former threat that men who ar highly sexual confident are often mistaken by poeple as being gay like brad pitt oder goerge clooney. Perhaps they are confused if a man is comfortable with being around them and they only know this from gay men.

[stratos]

Ah that makes sense..so it's normal for straight men to be a bit nervous around attractive women and if you're not - then you must be gay

[AlphaScorpio]

hmmm interesting

[Geodude]

I can confirm this. 99% of the time guys are trying to get something from beautiful women. When you're different than all the other guys, they'll assume that either you're gay or in a relationship. I had a girl ask me at a party if I was gay. I said, "Hell no." A week later, she found out where I worked somehow and told my boss to give me her number.

[Ace]

The gay thing is because women associate gay men with being comfortable around them. They're used to straight men constantly being nervous or insecure around them, and gay men being completely comfortable, because gay men have genuinely got no interest and straight men usually want sex and are at least slightly desperate. What she is saying is that you've mastered needlessness and she is confused to some degree because you don't act like other lesser straight men. It's actually a compliment, if you think about it.

[Fonzy3]

She is basically trying to knock you down a step by going neg on you. This indicates she recognizes how socially dominant you are and she is using a defence mechanism to cope. If you have supreme confidence this shouldn't faze you at all.

Thanks

Fonzy