05-22-2014, 07:38 PM
The gay thing is because women associate gay men with being comfortable around them. They're used to straight men constantly being nervous or insecure around them, and gay men being completely comfortable, because gay men have genuinely got no interest and straight men usually want sex and are at least slightly desperate. What she is saying is that you've mastered needlessness and she is confused to some degree because you don't act like other lesser straight men. It's actually a compliment, if you think about it.
