02-09-2014, 07:23 PM
@ Shannon: It is, of course, good to keep such things in mind, but the keeping of it in mind should not be a cause for discouragement, which is what I sensed from your post. If this guy wanted to f*ck the girl or, even, have a relationship with her, but shies away simply because he's afraid of something, in my opinion (unless there is a real threat to his physical safety), "words of caution" (aka "scare tactics" imo) are hardly helpful.
@ K-Train: My experience has been to simply be myself and they often conform. I had a girl recognize me a week after I approached her as I'm sure I mentioned before. My way of thinking is to realize most people are acting out of insecurity and fear, and that they will "reject" me or act weird simply because they are playing the role they usually play. However, if I stay true to myself, I know she's doing a double take when I leave and, as I've seen time and time again, they often try to get with me after realizing their "mistake".
Most people are children, treat them as such.
@ K-Train: My experience has been to simply be myself and they often conform. I had a girl recognize me a week after I approached her as I'm sure I mentioned before. My way of thinking is to realize most people are acting out of insecurity and fear, and that they will "reject" me or act weird simply because they are playing the role they usually play. However, if I stay true to myself, I know she's doing a double take when I leave and, as I've seen time and time again, they often try to get with me after realizing their "mistake".
Most people are children, treat them as such.
