SM v3 so far so good

[Shannon]

@Life lab she is a pretty hot 19 years old...

she has lost her virginty with 16 on a hospital toilette... she was engaged ... she was beaten several times from her ex boyfriends and has been hospitalized several times- kidney damages ... heart problems... she has a lot of depts and unpayed bills because she gave alle the money her criminal ex boyfriends lol... her familie has to pay back her debts to credit sharks lol =D thats all i know...

With these screaming red flags I can't believe that you were ever even considering it! Lol.

when shannon said i am meeting success with fear i said to myself "hmm maybe he is right and i am a pussy " haha good night guys...

First of all, you never told us these things about her. We can't assume she's damaged emotionally like that unless you tell us she is.

Second, I said... don't be wishy washy. Pick a course of action and OWN IT. You're trying to pass off responsibility to me here. It's not my responsibility what you choose to do. I also told you that in your shoes, I would not have done anything with her.

Third, nobody in their right mind should go after a hot mess like her. Evarrrrrrrrrrrrr. Such a female is damaged emotionally and needs healing, not more guys to play her game. She probably seeks to manipulate you through sex because it gives her power, and power is control, and control is safety and advantage. You're in a baaad position now... the best thing to do is end all contact with her, now and forever, and never look back. Hope that she doesn't try to screw you in some way out of revenge.

She probably also seeks to manipulate you through sex because she thinks that's what love is. She doesn't understand what love is, and believes that her only value and validity comes from manipulation and sex. I wouldn't be surprised if she has what I call Type II nymphomania, which is a woman who seeks love through sex, never comprehending that sex act is not love, and always seeking more sex to try to get the love she thinks will be just over that next screw.

Such a female is best avoided at all costs. Never trust such a one with anything she can use against you, and always take precautions to make sure you have a witness to the truth. I don't know where you live... but if it's as bad as the United States, all she has to do is SAY you raped her, and you are going to have a shitload of trouble.

The rule of thumb is that the more physically attractive a woman is, the more she will attract males who mistreat her emotionally (usually PUA types and guys who just want to use her for sex), which leads to her becoming more and more emotionally damaged until she has achieved a level of broken and/or crazy equal to her physical attractiveness. And, the more broken/crazy a woman is, the more potentially dangerous she is.

I suggest you stick to females you can trust and respect from now on.