SM v3 so far so good

[Shannon]

I fully understand where you are coming from, AfzalG. What I am saying is, man up and make a solid decision, and then own it. If it goes against your morals, then 100% don't do it. But if she is down, and she told her brother to tell you she's down, and he told you, chances are good that he isn't going to have a problem with it. And if he does, you can only know that by asking.

I personally would have a problem with acting on it if one of my close friends' sisters said that to me. I wouldn't touch Andrew's sister with a ten foot pole, no matter what she said she was down for, for instance; not because she isn't attractive, but because we have the "Man Code", and the man code says that's out of bounds unless it's cool with her brother/your friend. Even then I wouldn't be comfortable with it unless it was within the context of a serious relationship.

You basically treat your friends as you want to be treated, and if it is not something you would be pleased with your friend doing, you don't do it to them.

I'm not saying that fucking her is or is not a good idea. I am saying... be decisive, and then solidly own your decision and subsequent actions.