SM v3 so far so good

[Shannon]

wow how the heck r u ... getting that same result exactly same timing as me ... dafuck? let me guess ur somewhere day 12 on stage 3? im on 15 lol

Same timing on the same program, and roughly the same age I would guess? That would be expected if the program works.

its like me and u are going on the same period . shit falls off and comes back . funny as hell . im kinda excited to see stage 4.... curious about 5 and 6...

Which is what happens when you make progress and then realize your progress and let fear regress you.

the only story i have that stood out to me was a girl telling me to " slide all the way in" when i pay with my credit card. my first thought was... "hmmm is she trying to be sexual with me... dam if it is .... its wow.

That doesn't sound very likely... things like that you have to corroborate with body language, eye language, vocal intonations.

and that calibration shannon talks about is confusing.
Btw Shannon what are some tips you can give us to speed up the calibration process ?
cause im starting to get a little impatience about it
how do we catch up to our inner outer and overall attractiveness ??

What's confusing? You ever seen an inchworm? It first pulls it's feet to it's head, and then it's got it's body in a really weird position. Then it clams down with it;s feet and moves its head forward again. That's how it moves, and that's how we grow, too. Not all parts of us grow at the same time, and when it's inner growth it has to have time to be expressed outwardly, and in a way that corroborates the inner change. The conscious mind must adjust itself to what the subconscious mind is doing.

Impatience is not going to help. It's going to make things worse. Be patient. But in the meantime, learn to read and understand body language, eye language, facial cues, vocal cues and the like, and then use that to understand what people are communicating to you about yourself. Then take that information and use it to consciously calibrate by focusing on adjusting yourself consciously in those directions.

you talk about expressing it...
im getting the idea that our inner part is attractive off the chart.
But we dont know how to express that level of attractiveness so therefore girls can sense the imbalance ??? is that what ur saying?

That is very much what I am saying. Inwardly, energetically, you are expressing a LOT of sexuality and sexual desire and presence. Outwardly, you haven't caught up yet and are still dealing with fears that the program is getting you to face and overcome that are blocking your path.

what i find in me is i somehow gotten more nervous in just simply talking to girls and i almsot are lost for words sometimes . i swear its feels just like 2 years ago when i first started approaching girls (obviously wasnt that nervous now, jsut making a reference) . but its weird my body is like sensing nervousness and some sort of things going on that makes me feel nervous.

When you face your fears, they become your focus, and until they're dealt with, they are going to be more "front and center" and have a greater impact. As you deal with them, they will fade away. The program is pushing you to do things that scare you and then to outgrow those fears. It takes time.

before sm3 i had no problem chatting up with girls feeling all smooth and easy ... even with ultra hot girls ...
and now i was talking to a 5... and i was nervous . what the **** does that mean HAHAHA
but somehow i find this all fun and interesting...

Chatting up women of any amount of attractiveness isn't a problem if all you're doing is talking, because you have nothing to lose... but if you're genuinely going after her for sex, as is the case in this situation, you suddenly have to face the threat of rejection, and a lot of guys are afraid of that. It means the program is working, and you're dealing with the fears behind why you wanted to use the program in the first place: not enough sex.

Change is usually fun and interesting. :-)