(07-18-2016, 08:02 AM)Sickologist Wrote: All you need to do is to hit on women. And you already know how to do that, GLL the truth.
The problems with guys like us is that we have these illusions. You know, a couple of years ago I had this severe case of acne, on my face neck and upper back. It destroyed my confidence with girls. You wanna know the sad part? They didn't care. Even then I was more attractive than most guys. That's looking back. Out of frustration it got to the point that I decided to keep my t shirt on while having sex. But the thing is, I was also generally frustrated which made me "unnatural" around girls.
Your issue right now is that you only focus on your flaws. No girl is perfect. You don't think they get stuck on their own imperfections too. An example, if you like to have sex with a girl despite her being on her period, that's soothing news for her. Could be a million other things. But my point is, focus on your strengths, also focus on hers. It's just sex. Lost of girls would have sex with you, that's clear to see from your posts. And you don't have to go down on her for 20 mins like you're probably thinking lol. Not all girls care about your percieved problem, it's probably 50/50, at least IME.
Just relax and let it happen. Life's too short and boring, time to live it up.
This is overdue but thanks and you're right. To your point, I sometimes (but not often enough) think about how short and unpredictable life is and how small-minded I am to deny myself a significant part of what it means to be a young/human/male. With this bigger picture in mind I think about the complete and utter selfishness I should have when it comes to getting pussy. If we fuck and you lose interest or talk shit because my dick is too small or I came too fast, too bad, so sad, IDGAF. I got mine. YOLO.
And I bet that attitude would be mad attractive despite the shortcomings others might label me with, and I bet that all the sexual experience would actually work wonders for my PE. People are drawn to boldness, and it's only when you care about what they think that they have any power over you. But YOLO Dubls has a hard time crossing over into reality. I care too much. In other words, I'm afraid. I wish I could turn it off and just be a a sociopath when it comes to this stuff. Not in a serial killer way, but in a Steve Jobs kind of way.
I do sense that this program is bringing me closer to YOLO mode. As I wrote recently there are times when I feel downright sexy and ready to kill the game, and then my 'common sense' i.e bad/old programming kicks in.
Under heaven all can see beauty as beauty only because there is ugliness.
All can know good as good only because there is evil.
All can know good as good only because there is evil.