Quote:As usual, I did nothing. With girls like this I have a hard time believing that they're attracted to me. I don't feel like I'm on the same level. And the idea that I could associate sexually/romantically with a girl that attractive is difficult to process, let alone accept. So it's a self-esteem thing, but it also has to do with being inexperienced with womenSpot on. Feels like I'm reading myself.
Having low-self esteem can really cripple one's life. And the worse part is even tho you know it and work toward overcoming it, there is no real decent change, and reality is still as harsh.
This is a "impossible" problem. You need a real experience to kickstart acceptance, confidence and high self-esteem, but in the first place you need those to be successful with women.
I guess this is why it is so hard for some people to get decent results with subiminals. You have a program telling you how awesome and all you are, but everyday in your waking life the reality tells you it's definitelly NOT the case.
I experienced this on DMSI for instance. While listening to it I feel amazing and all but when I go out and see reality and I automatically revert back to the beta mental state.
Past experiences also weight a lot in how the brain process what's acceptable and what isn't. When in all your life what you ever got from the opposite is nothing but friendship, obviously you'll tend to believe that having more than that is a mere fantasy.
Well, we're going to get over it eventually
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