08-26-2016, 05:49 PM
I can understand how being bold opened you up, even if you didn't get the 3way, but what I've learned in my short time is girls speak a different language that is not direct the way we as men would define direct. But speaking their language is in fact direct to them, however it leaves room for ambiguity. Cheesy example:
You: Want to come over and watch a movie? [Want to come over and have sex?]
Her: Ok! [Yes I'm DTF]
Next Day
Her friend: You slept with him?
Her: We were watching a movie and it just kind of happened. [plausible deniability]
As opposed to:
[assuming you haven't had sex yet]
You: Want to come over and have sex?
Her: No! Do you think I'm some kind of slut?!
I feel that it's necessary to include that some guy might come along and spit game that throws all of that out the window. That said, if I was in a situation with 3some potential I'd lead with action: kissing, touching, equal attention. I'd also probably bust in 2m flat.
You: Want to come over and watch a movie? [Want to come over and have sex?]
Her: Ok! [Yes I'm DTF]
Next Day
Her friend: You slept with him?
Her: We were watching a movie and it just kind of happened. [plausible deniability]
As opposed to:
[assuming you haven't had sex yet]
You: Want to come over and have sex?
Her: No! Do you think I'm some kind of slut?!
I feel that it's necessary to include that some guy might come along and spit game that throws all of that out the window. That said, if I was in a situation with 3some potential I'd lead with action: kissing, touching, equal attention. I'd also probably bust in 2m flat.
Under heaven all can see beauty as beauty only because there is ugliness.
All can know good as good only because there is evil.
All can know good as good only because there is evil.
