10-10-2013, 08:19 PM
Well, there is a sort of a science to learning how to know that without having her tell you. You have to know how to read female body language, and it helps to be able to read facial cues, eye language, vocal intonation/timing/etc., contradictions or correlations in her words and actions, etc. You have to be able to read her, and everything she says or does will tell you what she's thinking. Body language is the majority, but knowing her personality type is also very important.
Knowing personality type can be discovered through various means. The eyeball method is quick, but you can also get a good idea from paying attention to her body type, height, build, choices, actions, weight, shape, and a variety of other things. Each of the four major personality types tends to a different body morphology. The slender ones are usually passionate or intellectual core; the thicker ones are usually not - or they're hybrids. Round is emotional core, squarish and stocky is physical core. Tall and athletic build is usually passionate core. Tall willowy build is usually intellectual core. Very short and petite is almost always passionate core, emotional core ore a hybrid of the two. Naturally blonde hair, and the paler it is the more this tends to be true, is usually intellectual core. Naturally red hair is usually passionate core (strawberry blonde to medium red) or passionate/emotional core hybrid, and naturally ultra-red is usually emotional core.
There are a thousand and one things to look for.
Passionate cores want action and excitement. Intellectual cores want action and excitement, too, but theirs is not so much physical as the passionate cores, they need intellectual stimulation. Both tend to enjoy discovering new things and traveling.
Emotional cores want to feel safe physically and emotionally, and loved. Physical cores want to feel safe too, but they want security in the form of monetary stability, plans and physical things. They also understand and appreciate touch, just as do emotional cores.
When it comes to sex, things get complex, because what a woman may have a very different set of sexual triggers and responses than her "public personality" may hint at. If you're not going to use the eyeball method, use the other method. Depending on her major personality type, either just ask... or make a game out of discovering it... or gently discover her at her own pace in more subtle ways she is comfortable.
Passionate and intellectual cores usually are quite happy to just tell you straight up what they want and like. Emotional cores need to be approached very gently and with kindness, understanding and consideration. They are VERY sensitive, and sex may make them feel excruciatingly vulnerable. Physical cores can go either way; some are extremely sensitive about it, others are very pragmatic and to-the-point.
Here where it gets interesting. Any woman, of any type of core focus, can have any other type of core focus for her sexuality. So you can find passionate cores with a sexual focus in emotional core. I met one of those just the other day, in fact. While most passionate cores are medium height or tall and slender, she was very short and thick. I suspected by her hair color (light red), height and freckles that she was a passionate core, but her thickness and the shape of her thickness told me she was Emotional core. Getting to know her has made it plain that she is both, with a greater focus on emotional core.
And so on.
Are there women who want you to take the lead and just follow along and enjoy whatever you do because you're taking the lead? Sure. There are also women who will get very upset if you do that.
The key is both knowing how to read her, and communication. Or there's always the eyeball method.
Knowing personality type can be discovered through various means. The eyeball method is quick, but you can also get a good idea from paying attention to her body type, height, build, choices, actions, weight, shape, and a variety of other things. Each of the four major personality types tends to a different body morphology. The slender ones are usually passionate or intellectual core; the thicker ones are usually not - or they're hybrids. Round is emotional core, squarish and stocky is physical core. Tall and athletic build is usually passionate core. Tall willowy build is usually intellectual core. Very short and petite is almost always passionate core, emotional core ore a hybrid of the two. Naturally blonde hair, and the paler it is the more this tends to be true, is usually intellectual core. Naturally red hair is usually passionate core (strawberry blonde to medium red) or passionate/emotional core hybrid, and naturally ultra-red is usually emotional core.
There are a thousand and one things to look for.
Passionate cores want action and excitement. Intellectual cores want action and excitement, too, but theirs is not so much physical as the passionate cores, they need intellectual stimulation. Both tend to enjoy discovering new things and traveling.
Emotional cores want to feel safe physically and emotionally, and loved. Physical cores want to feel safe too, but they want security in the form of monetary stability, plans and physical things. They also understand and appreciate touch, just as do emotional cores.
When it comes to sex, things get complex, because what a woman may have a very different set of sexual triggers and responses than her "public personality" may hint at. If you're not going to use the eyeball method, use the other method. Depending on her major personality type, either just ask... or make a game out of discovering it... or gently discover her at her own pace in more subtle ways she is comfortable.
Passionate and intellectual cores usually are quite happy to just tell you straight up what they want and like. Emotional cores need to be approached very gently and with kindness, understanding and consideration. They are VERY sensitive, and sex may make them feel excruciatingly vulnerable. Physical cores can go either way; some are extremely sensitive about it, others are very pragmatic and to-the-point.
Here where it gets interesting. Any woman, of any type of core focus, can have any other type of core focus for her sexuality. So you can find passionate cores with a sexual focus in emotional core. I met one of those just the other day, in fact. While most passionate cores are medium height or tall and slender, she was very short and thick. I suspected by her hair color (light red), height and freckles that she was a passionate core, but her thickness and the shape of her thickness told me she was Emotional core. Getting to know her has made it plain that she is both, with a greater focus on emotional core.
And so on.
Are there women who want you to take the lead and just follow along and enjoy whatever you do because you're taking the lead? Sure. There are also women who will get very upset if you do that.
The key is both knowing how to read her, and communication. Or there's always the eyeball method.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
