11-25-2017, 04:39 AM
(11-25-2017, 03:06 AM)thor2014 Wrote:(11-25-2017, 12:21 AM)Determined Wrote: Keep in mind thor2014 that the men in the army are trained to be instinctively obedient. This is done through rigorous and repetitive parade ground drilling, where the soldiers march to their superiors orders. This conditions them over time.
If you were a trained soldier, you might still feel the fear and anxiety but you'd be conditioned to behave otherwise.
Your absolutely right my friend. Which begs the question to Raykon. Why are you comparing yourself to somone in the military ?. Its like comparing apples and oranges. Its all well that you are approaching women, I think it's fantastic but does that make you better then those in the military who may not beable to approach women like you ?. Does that make you better then a doctor who can perform heart surgery on someone who is about to lose their life ?.
I have friends who worked in the police, military and the field of medicine. They are absolutely amazing people who are in competent in their own chosen professions. Yet they would never approach a woman during the day. This does not make them any better or worse then me who can approach.
I was only comparing us to the military because I wanted to explain to Sully that even people who fight in wars and are tough in other aspects of life have difficulty approaching women.
So he understands the problem is universal.