Yep some of the stuff helped atleast initially. David D stuff helped back when it first come out. But it still seemed kind of 'fake' like i'd end up with a girl and in a few months cracks would appear in the 'presentation'. That's the best I would describe it.
Throwing that away and connecting more with myself and dealing with some internal stuff (certain trauma for example) especially during E2 i'm not sleeping with as many girls as I was back when I was doing that David D stuff.. but the girls I do see I enjoy way more, like them as people, want to go and do other stuff with them aswell as sex. And over time because i'm more connected with myself they are attracted to me, not some bs 'presentation' so the 'relationships' (for lack of better word, as I haven't made any my gf) last longer and are better.
Chris Bale's (MasculineIntent) stuff has helped a bit recently, though I only really got into the parts of definining myself, writing down what I like and don't like, what i'll accept etc and it helped me flesh that out and look for that in girls plus communicate that to them. As personally now I want to know they are into some of the similar things I like to do so we can do them together otherwise it's just sex and after sex I won't want to be around them.. and though I don't want an exclusive girlfriend I want more than just a girls to have sex with that is nothing else that I don't enjoy in other ways. Sure i'd take sex over no sex, but it's not idea nor what I enjoy most.
Throwing that away and connecting more with myself and dealing with some internal stuff (certain trauma for example) especially during E2 i'm not sleeping with as many girls as I was back when I was doing that David D stuff.. but the girls I do see I enjoy way more, like them as people, want to go and do other stuff with them aswell as sex. And over time because i'm more connected with myself they are attracted to me, not some bs 'presentation' so the 'relationships' (for lack of better word, as I haven't made any my gf) last longer and are better.
Chris Bale's (MasculineIntent) stuff has helped a bit recently, though I only really got into the parts of definining myself, writing down what I like and don't like, what i'll accept etc and it helped me flesh that out and look for that in girls plus communicate that to them. As personally now I want to know they are into some of the similar things I like to do so we can do them together otherwise it's just sex and after sex I won't want to be around them.. and though I don't want an exclusive girlfriend I want more than just a girls to have sex with that is nothing else that I don't enjoy in other ways. Sure i'd take sex over no sex, but it's not idea nor what I enjoy most.