03-09-2017, 09:47 PM
Sincerely take action,
1. If your this descriptive over txt with a girl your gonna turn her off.
2. If your emotions are always display, stop it. Be more stoic.
3. You remasculinize your mentality and how you express your emotions.
4. Be colder, do not take girls to seriously, or try to console them
5. Your definition of friend is their definition of some to take a joke.
6. Trivialize sex. Give a little less, it makes you less prone to taken for granted.
This is constructive criticism this is helping. Not feeling sorry for him, not babying his wounds.
He knows his wounds and uses them as excuse to not act in his long term welfare.
Do not thank me, merely analyze your behavior and neutrally study if it lean towards too nice( which girls view as feminine) or more assertive and selfish( which is masculine).
Perceiving from your post I brought these points because that's off the bat something i see is messing you up.
Take action you you've journaled and wallowed in your pain verbosely and masochisticly. But never take action. Everybody cuddles, are you soft and frail? You are not.
You enjoy being your own whipping boy and then at the end paragraph you try to put this optimist zeal. Only repeat the same downtrodden bleak to upbeat zeal yet again the next post same format.
Now you'll read and pull the dignified martyr tactic. And then the pity ensues.
I'm not trolling and I'm serious. Man up.
1. If your this descriptive over txt with a girl your gonna turn her off.
2. If your emotions are always display, stop it. Be more stoic.
3. You remasculinize your mentality and how you express your emotions.
4. Be colder, do not take girls to seriously, or try to console them
5. Your definition of friend is their definition of some to take a joke.
6. Trivialize sex. Give a little less, it makes you less prone to taken for granted.
This is constructive criticism this is helping. Not feeling sorry for him, not babying his wounds.
He knows his wounds and uses them as excuse to not act in his long term welfare.
Do not thank me, merely analyze your behavior and neutrally study if it lean towards too nice( which girls view as feminine) or more assertive and selfish( which is masculine).
Perceiving from your post I brought these points because that's off the bat something i see is messing you up.
Take action you you've journaled and wallowed in your pain verbosely and masochisticly. But never take action. Everybody cuddles, are you soft and frail? You are not.
You enjoy being your own whipping boy and then at the end paragraph you try to put this optimist zeal. Only repeat the same downtrodden bleak to upbeat zeal yet again the next post same format.
Now you'll read and pull the dignified martyr tactic. And then the pity ensues.
I'm not trolling and I'm serious. Man up.