My ASC Journal - Conquering anxiety & feeling extremely confident

[Shannon]

One more thing, any member can give feedback on this.
Whenever I meet a new girl, at first she's attracted, then I sabotage myself, and keep having intrusive thoughts on how I won't be able to keep her attracted, how she will run to other guys. Basically, lack of trust in myself, in my qualities as a man Extreme insecurity.
Can ASC fix this?

You don't have issues with trust in yourself.  You have a common very basic insecurity that a lot of guys have, which can be boiled down to a fear that when it comes to women, you are not good enough.  This (probably) arises partly from the fact that you are young.  Young women, like young men, want to play the field and have fun and explore.  They aren't necessarily interested in choosing one guy and keeping him, although that is not universally true.  I know a woman who met her husband when she was 18, and settled down with him permanently.  They have had to do a lot of work to make their relationship work, but that's true of any serious relationship.  The key is, they want that relationship more than they want anything else they could have, so they do what it takes to make it work.  She is 21 now, and they are happier than ever.  They're completely honest with each other, completely faithful to each other, they do their best to communicate with one another openly, honestly, effectively and genuinely, and they genuinely love one another.  

The key is, you've probably read and seen all kinds of pickup artist stuff telling you that she's just out to get hers.  Well, if you go after the wrong type of woman, sure, but that can also be said of the wrong type of guys.  The key to a relationship with a woman is that you have to accept yourself as you are and be okay with that.  Sure, you want to improve over time, but accepting yourself as you are is the only way to find a woman who is what you are looking for, and who is looking for what you are.

It works like this.  What you believe and what you emote (what emotions you generate and focus on and through) creates your "resonance pattern".  That pattern acts like a radio tuner, and attunes you to the reality in which what you focus on is what you experience.  So if you are focusing on a belief that you're not good enough and a fear that you will never be able to attract a woman and keep her, then that becomes your resonance pattern and that is what you attune yourself to experiencing.  Women smell insecurity a mile away, and they avoid it.  Boom, instant self fulfilling prophecy for you.

So the solution is to accept yourself as you are and accept the truth that no matter what, someone is out there who matches you and is looking for a guy like you.  You will discover that when you are completely honest and let the chips fall where they may, a magical thing happens: those who are not right for you will leave, and those who are right for you will show up.  You know what that is?  That is you creating a resonance pattern that matches what you want, instead of what you fear.

ASC can definitely help with this, but that program is from 2012, and I did not understand some of what makes up deep self confidence back then.  So it can definitely help you on the path, but there are other things you need to do for inner work.  We have some other programs that can help too, but I think you should stick with that one for a few months.