02-25-2014, 05:58 PM
(02-25-2014, 05:31 PM)Shannon Wrote: "I'm busy with ___ right now, but tell you what. If you want to get together, I'm free on ___ day at __ time. Meet me at ___ if you're interested."
Then go about doing whatever as if you've completely forgotten she was interested and you could not care less. If she's interested, she'll show up and it's all good. If not, she wasn't really interested, and she's not wasting your time, and it's still all good.
Totally agree, but for me, doing what I want is more important. Maybe it makes the girl want me more, but if I am saying "no" to make her want me more, it's just as bad as being desperate imo.
