11-03-2014, 04:43 AM
(This post was last modified: 11-03-2014, 04:45 AM by MasterEnki.)
Quote:Clansy Wrote:
I don't want to be harsh, but it looks like you are trying to avoid actually tackling the problem. It seems like are trying to do all other subs, except the main thing that would help you to deal with the problem...
Quote:Ricardo Wrote:
Without addressing those hang-ups you will be wasting a lot of time with that choice of subs
I think tapping, etc. will help alot with those hang-ups.
The way I tap has given me remarkable results with what I've been doing it on (FYI - Success Mindset, Removing doubts / opposing thoughts about being gorgeous, and some random negative thoughts).
I plan to tap on each of those hang-ups for a few months at least.
The way I tap is:
1. Have a clear image on how I want to be (or if it is abstract / complex, have key words / symbols that represent it).
2. Focus on image until opposing thoughts arise (if there are any / any left).
3. Tap away opposing thoughts.
4. Repeat until no opposing thoughts come up (or opposing thoughts come up, but without emotion / attachment to them).
Though still, I honestly think that real-life experience is the best way to get comfortable with intimacy / sex.
In the past, I've had many things that made me uncomfortable when I had little to no experience / familiarity,
But when I did start doing them / got experience / familiar with them, I got comfortable with them and now I enjoy them.
I don't think DAOS has been useless,
I've noticed some good changes in the last week or two.
I think all the subs on my short list (except maybe Attract Positive Energy, as a refresher) will be helpful with women.
Most the other areas in my life are excellent.
Though AM6 would cover alot more (EDIT: Then say ASC and LTU)
For now I'm going to being doing another 18 Days of DAOS, have a few days off subs, and do 1 - 3 months of ASC.