08-06-2016, 12:48 PM
You have a child together. If she did flip the script, could you handle it? Cause you can't just say, "Welp, sucks to be you - see ya!" after having a baby together.
My advice is to consider carefully the long term impact of any action you take. And have a very explicit private conversation with your wife about what the rules are now.
I set up my relationships in the beginning with rules that basically make it impossible for me to "cheat" because the rules explicitly state that I am always free to do whatever with whomever. Including intentionally have a LTR, children, etc. But, if you switch the rules around in the middle of a relationship, you really run a risk. Be careful, sir.
My advice is to consider carefully the long term impact of any action you take. And have a very explicit private conversation with your wife about what the rules are now.
I set up my relationships in the beginning with rules that basically make it impossible for me to "cheat" because the rules explicitly state that I am always free to do whatever with whomever. Including intentionally have a LTR, children, etc. But, if you switch the rules around in the middle of a relationship, you really run a risk. Be careful, sir.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!