LionMonkey is a WM 5G

[LionMonkey]

Well it's awesome you are doing this. I wish I had your confidence to get "reference points" as well. I hope to be there soon, but till then, I enjoy reading your journal. Keep us posted!

Trust me, I wasn't like this at all when I began my journey few years back. It has been quite a journey so far and I'm very happy that I took it since it has become really fun to meet women and talk to them. Also a lot of it is about yourself and self-development.

My reality has often been in limbo since last year because of the random things that would happen sometimes when I pushed my limits.

To make it clear: I'm not saying that going out to bars or clubs is necessary with this. I'm saying that meeting and talking to women, anywhere and anytime is (and learn from them), in order to have the "women" area successful.

I keep reading your posts about being in Beijing but yet most of the sets you open seems to be German. You have me intrigued...

If you really did take your time to read my journal, I wrote in DAY1 - DAYTIME that I didn't prefer Asian women. There are lots of expats and foreigners here at night in central Beijing.


Here's the sets from Saturday night:

At the first high-end bar before I went to the rooftop bar - THE TIME WAS 1:30AM

1. SET TWO WOMEN IN THEIR 30'S

There weren't many people in the bar. As I walked in and around the bar I saw two women sitting with wine glasses.

One blonde and one brunette. The blonde was very open and tried to qualify herself right from the get-go. As the brunette noticed this, she became more open and interrupted by asking questions.

It was a warmup set and I wasn't even in the mood to fuck. I removed myself after the interaction went stall.
( I met the brunette downstairs when I was looking for the rooftop bar. I said excuse me and saw it was her so I'm like heey! She looks at me, turn around and just walked away)

LESSON: take more risks for the sake of practice, even though you didn't feel like fucking. To push it further stay longer in the set and try to pull the blonde. Just for the reference...

2. SET INTERRUPTING 2 SALES WOMEN

1 minute after I saw a group of 2 younger girls. I went straight in. I was screening without me being conscious of it. First the blonde was most attentive, then the brunette.

The blonde said at a point that they were talking but I ignored it and kept talking.

They began to agree with my opinions but I still didn't feel like fucking. I didn't want to be a social burden so I removed myself and left the bar to search for the rooftop bar.

LESSON: Do not set expectations on what will happen with you and a girl that wants to meet in a bar with her friend(s). Just take whatever opportunities may present in the moment.

3. SET SHORT HAIRED GERMAN BRUNETTE

I found the rooftop bar and after looking around after the blonde for 1 minute, I saw a brunette and just began talking to her.

She was a bit closed in the beginning but as I put my personality out there she became very attentive and asked a lot of questions.

Had some great fun and self-amusement. I talked with her for 5 minutes and then I noticed the German blonde walking downstairs with her friend, so I excused myself and went down.

LESSON: Do not go after a girl that has asked you to meet at a bar, instead, let her notice you talking to other girls and let her interrupt to show if she really likes you. You aren't obligated to anything!

4. SET RE-APPROACH GERMAN BRUNETTE

I quickly looked around to see who would be interesting to talk to (after I removed myself from the group the German blonde introduced me to) and the short-haired brunette just happened to stand near me with two friends.

So I joined in and talked with her. I didn't feel sexual attraction to this girl though so I greeted her two friends. They seemed very blasé to me but were also very quiet. I tried to be socially normal in that situation so I didn't go for her friend which I was more sexually attracted to.

The brunette was like "take me" but I just couldn't do it! Eventually I left the group.

LESSON: Go for her hotter friend next time or leave and come back and talk with her friend.
Else, be less judgmental, just push the moment as far as you can. It gives you arousal to make out with a girl and even then, if you do not notice a hotter girl, try to pull her. It doesn't mean you have to fuck her...

5. SET RANDOM RUSSIAN AND BEGIAN WOMEN

THE TIME WAS NOW 3:30AM and there were even less attractive girls now. I wanted to not stay out of set, so I went over to two girls at a table, a bit away from the crowd.

I came in with little intention and the Russian became immediately distracted but the Belgian found it interesting basically because she had no choice.

Anyways the interaction quickly became stall because there wasn't any chemistry, so I left.

LESSON: Take more risks, like physicality or say edgy things and do stupid shit in order to not have a boring interaction. See where it leads to. You don't have chemistry anyways.

6. SET FUN 2 SPANISH GIRLS

I was standing in an elevated spot near the dancefloor and was thinking how cool it was that I could really enjoy and move to the music completely sober.
Suddenly this big guy stands beside me and intrude my space a bit. I stand my ground and then he signals me one of his newly bought beers.

me: "I don't drink"
he turns then he offer me his other beer, apparently he had just taken a sip of he former one.
me: "I don't drink"

He's like ohh.. And went away after a bit..

I walk around the bar one more time before leaving. I stand near the entrance and I see two cute Russian girls who had just arrived but I there were also two petite Spanish brunettes just near me.

me: "hello"
them: "hello"
me: "you are Germans"
them: "no Spanish"
me: "how do you say, come here dog in Spanish?"

They laughed/giggled a bit and told me how. Then the hotter one said that you do not say that to girls. They will think it is rude.

It was cute and I teased her a bit with it. I got more physical with her and she was into it but her friend dragged her away quickly.

LESSON: Be more leading in the moment of amping up he physicality and isolate her fast before her friend can drag her away. Or re-approach the girl and then drag her away!

7. SET 2 CUTE RUSSIAN GIRLS

Right after I went over to the Russian girls.

me: "hello!"
her: "hi.."
me: "why are you looking at me like this is weird?"
her: "sorry my English isn't very good"

I then talked to the hot one, she had a grasshopper figure in a rose form.

I commented on the grasshopper and said what kind of gift is that..

I tried to stay in the set for as long as I could. The interaction had went stall. Then I see the the hot one look over my shoulder smiling very inviting and I notice a tall blonde guy. It was he who gave her the grasshopper. I stood my ground. He said something but couldn't get to them because of me. Eventually he left.

The hot one began to be very blasé and moved a bit away from me and looked away. Her friend was still friendly but the energy was just gone, so after a while I excused myself and they looked happy at me when I did that.

Just a few minutes later I see the hot girl dance sexually with the tall guy and her friend with another tall guy. When I saw that, I thought "motherfucker.. how can some guys have it so easy.." another reason why building this skill-set is great.

LESSON: The time was around 4:00AM - I was thinking in my head, in the moment if I would fuck the hot Russian girl while I was talking to her.
Yes I would but there weren't much chemistry since I had to do all the talking.
They were both interested in the beginning but as I revealed many things about myself while at the same time, having a weak intention, they lost interest.

That was the last set of the night and I headed back to my hotel where I met the blonde German girl again...

Key note: intention and how you approach is crucial to how an interaction will go.. Also the later in the night, the more strong intention you can go in with without surprising the girl too much..

Main curiosity: How do you develop strong intent? How can it be few rare nights you feel very strong intent and not entertaining at all.. like a centered caveman and other nights your intent is weak but you have more fun with more girls?