05-22-2013, 12:47 PM
(This post was last modified: 05-22-2013, 12:48 PM by LionMonkey.)
Stage 5 - Day 23,
Let me say this before I'll write some of my thoughts down of recent discoveries, "game" is a complex thing. It is not easily understood because of the many intricacies intertwined in an interaction between a man and a woman. Between who you are as a man and how female psychology is. Between the situation and circumstances. Everything is in the moment.
I've had a vision of how reality really looks like when picking up women. I went to a program by one of the worlds best guys that can have fun and get women. It was a program where he showed us him infield with a hidden camera. He would then pause and explain the subtleties he did and the girls subtle or not so subtle reactions. Also explaining the mindset behind why he does those things. The videos were not only very on the point but also extremely hilarious.
With my several years of experience and lots of references I saw "the truth" if you want. Looking back on every encounter I remember with women while he explained the videos, I finally feel like I have a really great understanding of women and what they really respond to.
What a really cool guy looks like and think like too.. and how the ego works with self-created identities
Now I'm consistent with going out and meeting girls every weekend 2-3 nights a week with a new good friend, who is a beast with this.
What I have noticed in my process are:
- My ego is mostly not present, there has been swings but after the program I'm much more egoless and my understanding of how high value looks like enforces that a lot
- Very comfortable meeting women
- Not always feeling 100% entitled but doing approaches is not difficult
- Has a great intuition on noticing girls who signals that they wants me to talk to interact with them
- Taking myself not seriously at all, much more self-amusement
- Which leads to less neediness. I do catch myself "trying" sometimes and I always know that's why the girl(s) attention faded.
- Less judging and more fun
- Have gone out the two past weeks with glasses on and I am extremely comfortable with it, just like with lenses. It's all the same. Only thing is that I'm more passive when a guy interferes because I think, if I did get in a fight, the glasses ruins it, even though I've been practicing martial arts for 7 years. Therefore, less entitled to mixed sets
- More in tune with the communication level of the average woman than the average man. I have a hard time to talk with guys when I'm out, especially guys who aren't "cool".. actually I don't talk to guys at all.. very rarely and it's just very small-talk..
I don't know.. it seems like I've lost track on what the subliminal improves in me.
I really feel like the same.. but my understanding of women and high value works have made everything go together for me and since I'm sober when I go out, I am able to adjust and calibrate to what I've learned, to how the girl responds etc.
Amazing really
A thing I've noticed is that before my understanding changed, I have had some of the concepts of a high value guy without being consciously aware of it. I think that's why some of the girls wanted to sleep with me, without me doing much. It was only on those moments though because eventually I didn't get it and they turned out to be ONS.
I think a combination of AM and WM has had that impact...
Let me say this before I'll write some of my thoughts down of recent discoveries, "game" is a complex thing. It is not easily understood because of the many intricacies intertwined in an interaction between a man and a woman. Between who you are as a man and how female psychology is. Between the situation and circumstances. Everything is in the moment.
I've had a vision of how reality really looks like when picking up women. I went to a program by one of the worlds best guys that can have fun and get women. It was a program where he showed us him infield with a hidden camera. He would then pause and explain the subtleties he did and the girls subtle or not so subtle reactions. Also explaining the mindset behind why he does those things. The videos were not only very on the point but also extremely hilarious.
With my several years of experience and lots of references I saw "the truth" if you want. Looking back on every encounter I remember with women while he explained the videos, I finally feel like I have a really great understanding of women and what they really respond to.
What a really cool guy looks like and think like too.. and how the ego works with self-created identities
Now I'm consistent with going out and meeting girls every weekend 2-3 nights a week with a new good friend, who is a beast with this.
What I have noticed in my process are:
- My ego is mostly not present, there has been swings but after the program I'm much more egoless and my understanding of how high value looks like enforces that a lot
- Very comfortable meeting women
- Not always feeling 100% entitled but doing approaches is not difficult
- Has a great intuition on noticing girls who signals that they wants me to talk to interact with them
- Taking myself not seriously at all, much more self-amusement
- Which leads to less neediness. I do catch myself "trying" sometimes and I always know that's why the girl(s) attention faded.
- Less judging and more fun
- Have gone out the two past weeks with glasses on and I am extremely comfortable with it, just like with lenses. It's all the same. Only thing is that I'm more passive when a guy interferes because I think, if I did get in a fight, the glasses ruins it, even though I've been practicing martial arts for 7 years. Therefore, less entitled to mixed sets
- More in tune with the communication level of the average woman than the average man. I have a hard time to talk with guys when I'm out, especially guys who aren't "cool".. actually I don't talk to guys at all.. very rarely and it's just very small-talk..
I don't know.. it seems like I've lost track on what the subliminal improves in me.
I really feel like the same.. but my understanding of women and high value works have made everything go together for me and since I'm sober when I go out, I am able to adjust and calibrate to what I've learned, to how the girl responds etc.
Amazing really
A thing I've noticed is that before my understanding changed, I have had some of the concepts of a high value guy without being consciously aware of it. I think that's why some of the girls wanted to sleep with me, without me doing much. It was only on those moments though because eventually I didn't get it and they turned out to be ONS.
I think a combination of AM and WM has had that impact...
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.