04-07-2013, 07:30 AM
(This post was last modified: 04-07-2013, 07:39 AM by LionMonkey.)
The word, "entitlement" is a very interesting thing to develop and ponder over...
I think it is the very essence of living in a world of your own rules and doing things because that is what you want...
I find it being mixed up with pride and the ego sometimes but it happens rarely. It usually happens that when I get in conflict with a girl for refusing my entitlement in a very uncool manner.
Then comes the fine line of self-respect and not taking myself too seriously, for example when I sense that the girl is positioning herself near me and hope I talk to her again...
What are your thoughts on this? Can you relate?
Stage 4 - Day 14,
I slipped back into idle time and unworthiness after the 11 nights out straight. I skipped the gym and I didn't do much but procrastinating not going out even though I had the chance to do so. Slept late. Just laying the bed with no enthusiasm for life. I became weaker emotionally and also physically..
It happened over the course of 3-4 days and it was part also because I had a re-exam I had 3-4 days to study up to.
When I finally hit the gym I could not lift as much as last week.
But just by showing up in the gym was the step I had to take to reinforce the good habits again and start "living" my life again. Since then I've been to the gym every day and started going out again.
Meeting women has become very easy for me because I assume that they want to talk to me and I am worthy. It starts out by me not being so comfortable but as I get in tune with talking to women as the night progresses I am not giving a f*** and I feel I get less and less attached to whatever the girl responds.
I learn a lot by meeting and talking to women. About myself and about women.
Now whenever I begin to doubt if I want to do.. for example my morning workout, going to the gym or going out at night and meeting women, I ask myself; "It may be hard now but it is a decision you have to make now if you want to go for your dreams. Look at the bigger picture and create these great habits by just doing it NOW and that will naturally guide you to an easier and simpler way to get what you want".
Here are some key sentences for myself that I've been experimenting with lately:
- entitlement, leading, girls love it, you are the shit, you expect that people are going to listen to you or do things for you without a doubt not forcing it, which puts the ego in danger, but being it.. being vulnerable about it
- sexual, strong eye-contact, no flinching, sure and centered
- move the girl, setting the frame, "of course we are going, that's what we've been doing all the time"
- being stupid, talking shit, not talking logically at all: passing of girls shit-tests
- consciously grounding and not giving a fuck emotionally: strong frame of your own reality that draws the girl into it
- different ranges of emotions, keyword: strong emotions which means strong masculinity to handle it
- do not get emotionally off-balance so you embody the emotions, yes do it certain situations where it will fuel the strong emotions but never be attached to it , makes you look more real
- push/pull ! ! ! !! ! !
I think it is the very essence of living in a world of your own rules and doing things because that is what you want...
I find it being mixed up with pride and the ego sometimes but it happens rarely. It usually happens that when I get in conflict with a girl for refusing my entitlement in a very uncool manner.
Then comes the fine line of self-respect and not taking myself too seriously, for example when I sense that the girl is positioning herself near me and hope I talk to her again...
What are your thoughts on this? Can you relate?
Stage 4 - Day 14,
I slipped back into idle time and unworthiness after the 11 nights out straight. I skipped the gym and I didn't do much but procrastinating not going out even though I had the chance to do so. Slept late. Just laying the bed with no enthusiasm for life. I became weaker emotionally and also physically..
It happened over the course of 3-4 days and it was part also because I had a re-exam I had 3-4 days to study up to.
When I finally hit the gym I could not lift as much as last week.
But just by showing up in the gym was the step I had to take to reinforce the good habits again and start "living" my life again. Since then I've been to the gym every day and started going out again.
Meeting women has become very easy for me because I assume that they want to talk to me and I am worthy. It starts out by me not being so comfortable but as I get in tune with talking to women as the night progresses I am not giving a f*** and I feel I get less and less attached to whatever the girl responds.
I learn a lot by meeting and talking to women. About myself and about women.
Now whenever I begin to doubt if I want to do.. for example my morning workout, going to the gym or going out at night and meeting women, I ask myself; "It may be hard now but it is a decision you have to make now if you want to go for your dreams. Look at the bigger picture and create these great habits by just doing it NOW and that will naturally guide you to an easier and simpler way to get what you want".
Here are some key sentences for myself that I've been experimenting with lately:
- entitlement, leading, girls love it, you are the shit, you expect that people are going to listen to you or do things for you without a doubt not forcing it, which puts the ego in danger, but being it.. being vulnerable about it
- sexual, strong eye-contact, no flinching, sure and centered
- move the girl, setting the frame, "of course we are going, that's what we've been doing all the time"
- being stupid, talking shit, not talking logically at all: passing of girls shit-tests
- consciously grounding and not giving a fuck emotionally: strong frame of your own reality that draws the girl into it
- different ranges of emotions, keyword: strong emotions which means strong masculinity to handle it
- do not get emotionally off-balance so you embody the emotions, yes do it certain situations where it will fuel the strong emotions but never be attached to it , makes you look more real
- push/pull ! ! ! !! ! !
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
