01-18-2013, 10:41 AM
I most certainly am.
I've been into this "game" thing for several years now and there may be some minor changes, that I do not really notice, that makes the difference. The big changes I've noticed so far are great and I've noticed that they are some big factors to become a ladies man.
Because there are so many factors in play when dealing with people, especially women, people and myself included gets often confused in what's going on. That's what makes progress hard to understand.
Some people go through their whole lives floating around in a chaotic learning curve which seems to never go over the top.
I myself have had spent a year or two of just trying to see whats going to happen and not really be conscious of what is happening whenever I would meet girls. My focus was on "I'm going to see what's going to happen, have fun, meet people and cute girls" but I never reflected on what it was that worked so well or didn't work so well so my progress was slow.
I've never been the person to hate or judge people (because most people are passive and are not idiots) so I often thought it was me! when I went over to some girls and my self-esteem dropped low and I would like reboot the momentums I have had. What made it worse was that I would subconsciously judge/hate women after the bad experiences.
It was not until I kept going, kept studying, learning, meeting people who are already very skilled in the art and reminding myself why it is I am doing what I do, that I finally got built a great foundation to go from.
Of course has this subliminal given me a stronger foundation and is showing me a way to head for...
Stage 2 - Day 20,
It seems that being nice to a girl is what gets the girl. Hmm. Where did I go wrong?!
When I look back I've been like almost the opposite sometimes when I was on "fire" and the girls would never respond great to me, except few times where some girls could see I didn't give a f*** but it was one-sided and I gave her no space to breathe.
Being cool, nice, laid back and leading is what gets great results!
Something I've noticed besides that is that when I am totally speaking my mind and "leading" my voice tend to go in a monotone tone and it becomes boring with no intent.
Our voice tonality is such an important skill to develop for making our presence like a man!
This weeks lesson so far: "Have intent in everything you do. Don't speak it. Communicate it. Feel it."
I've been into this "game" thing for several years now and there may be some minor changes, that I do not really notice, that makes the difference. The big changes I've noticed so far are great and I've noticed that they are some big factors to become a ladies man.
Because there are so many factors in play when dealing with people, especially women, people and myself included gets often confused in what's going on. That's what makes progress hard to understand.
Some people go through their whole lives floating around in a chaotic learning curve which seems to never go over the top.
I myself have had spent a year or two of just trying to see whats going to happen and not really be conscious of what is happening whenever I would meet girls. My focus was on "I'm going to see what's going to happen, have fun, meet people and cute girls" but I never reflected on what it was that worked so well or didn't work so well so my progress was slow.
I've never been the person to hate or judge people (because most people are passive and are not idiots) so I often thought it was me! when I went over to some girls and my self-esteem dropped low and I would like reboot the momentums I have had. What made it worse was that I would subconsciously judge/hate women after the bad experiences.
It was not until I kept going, kept studying, learning, meeting people who are already very skilled in the art and reminding myself why it is I am doing what I do, that I finally got built a great foundation to go from.
Of course has this subliminal given me a stronger foundation and is showing me a way to head for...
Stage 2 - Day 20,
It seems that being nice to a girl is what gets the girl. Hmm. Where did I go wrong?!
When I look back I've been like almost the opposite sometimes when I was on "fire" and the girls would never respond great to me, except few times where some girls could see I didn't give a f*** but it was one-sided and I gave her no space to breathe.
Being cool, nice, laid back and leading is what gets great results!
Something I've noticed besides that is that when I am totally speaking my mind and "leading" my voice tend to go in a monotone tone and it becomes boring with no intent.
Our voice tonality is such an important skill to develop for making our presence like a man!
This weeks lesson so far: "Have intent in everything you do. Don't speak it. Communicate it. Feel it."
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
