08-27-2015, 01:03 PM
Quote:Maybe its just me, but I think some of that AM/SM/WM content of not accepting any shit is partly making things worse, because a lot of women just give shit as default. Of course this is much less of an issue in more "normal" environments, but access is the issue for me there (medium-small city, already graduated from university). Seems like only middle-aged and up women even go to hobbies, the younger ones mostly go to the gym, which imo is a similar anti-social posing ground than clubs. Love the gym, but its not pro-social. Atm I won't go to clubs b/c I'm expecting bitches and that makes me feel negative (which would make them bitchy). I can't even do Tinder or online dating either atm; why should I "come up with something clever & unique" when I haven't even met the chick? I'm supposed to be all eager and excited just because she's a woman? Blah.
I'll try clearing on that^^. Its just that its a little too below-the-surface, where I can't quite latch onto it firmly enough to let it go atm. How do you do an affirmation like the one you wrote with Sedona? I just use the 3 questions to release.
Have you considered WM2? I feel very drawn to OF, but I'm thinking it'd deserve a good 6 months to sink in.. that's the same as a magnet "costs" time-wise.
The way I see it, many guys start SM in an attempt to fill a void within themselves. What generally happen is that the sense of emptiness becomes greater and it ends with an unsatisfactory journey.
In the past, I used the Sedona Method goal process to attract women. But, it wasn't too good. There was always this negativity that was ruining everything.
I researched the information about men who were naturally good with women. They shared in common several traits such as healthy level of self-esteem, self-appreciation, love for life, love for women.
They had also something greater than women in their life.
SM3 does nothing to address theses important bases. It is certainly an excellent program for guys who already have excellent bases.
About WM2, I do not have enough info about it. Not many journals.
In my opinion they are two keys point that lead to success and its your own self-appreciation and the appreciation you have for women.
There was this guy who got divorced and he had a lot of negativity toward women. His coach instructed him through various hypnosis process to let go of the negativity toward women and replace it with strong appreciation.
Within a week, he was dating several women.
If WM2 helps with that then great. Maybe, I can run it after OF. But for now, releasing and OF are good enough because they provide a very focused framework.
Just working on removing chunk after chunk of negativity/fear.
As for Sedona Method, I use the Goal Process from their manual
Here is an example of session
Says statement: I allow myself to deeply love women
Objection? Well, I feel negativity toward women
Is it coming from wanting approval/love, security, wanting to be separated/free, or wanting control , or oneness?
Answer: It is coming from wanting approval/love
Can you let go of wanting approval/love ?
Yes
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Then you start again
I came to OF because week after week, the objections were always the same either fear or negativity.
Subs History: BIABW (2014)-> AM (2015) -> OF 4g 1.1 (2015)- > DAOS 4g (90 days - 2016) -> DMSI - > AYPNBL