04-11-2020, 11:24 PM
(04-11-2020, 11:15 PM)AriGold Wrote: In my opinion just enjoy your life. If a relationship develops, see how it feels for you. Does it feel like something is taken away from you (freedom for example) or is something added to your life (sharing moments, stories, laughter, fun). There is no need to put a label like "relationship is good" or "relationship is bad". Enjoy the time with people you like and if it is one person you enjoy a lot then spend more time with that person.
Good sound advise. It's just that I have a history of "loosing myself" in relationships sometimes and getting to attached - so it becomes hard to keep a clear head of what it feels like being on my own, and I have been in relationships just because of the fear of not being alone - I don't want to be in that position again.
