12-19-2018, 07:51 AM
hello mate,
perchance I came across your journal and some of the things you said were so spot on, I could not believe it.
I am experiencing some things that you are going through and I can't believe how well your words describe what I was feeling.
Particularly these two quotes
A chick stood me up and I got so pissed at her and few other unrelated chicks that I found it hard to control my anger.
and this
And then I read Shannon's words and again it is so surprising that I was thinking almost exactly these lines
This was super helpful because I was trying to figure out what to do with this chick. In the past, I would just block her in messages and never look at her again and be done with it.
But now, I feel like I should point out her mistake to her face and give her a piece of my mind instead of ghosting her.
perchance I came across your journal and some of the things you said were so spot on, I could not believe it.
I am experiencing some things that you are going through and I can't believe how well your words describe what I was feeling.
Particularly these two quotes
Quote:Fast forward to now and I'm PISSED. I mean PISSED.
A chick stood me up and I got so pissed at her and few other unrelated chicks that I found it hard to control my anger.
and this
Quote:For the record, my biggest issue has been biting my tongue and not voicing my displeasure either at all or early on when someone/something pisses me off/disrespects me/treats me in an unfavorable manner.
And then I read Shannon's words and again it is so surprising that I was thinking almost exactly these lines
Quote:My boundaries are X, and if you cross those boundaries you will have to deal with the consequences and that is that.
This was super helpful because I was trying to figure out what to do with this chick. In the past, I would just block her in messages and never look at her again and be done with it.
But now, I feel like I should point out her mistake to her face and give her a piece of my mind instead of ghosting her.
