03-08-2015, 02:12 AM
(This post was last modified: 03-17-2015, 07:06 PM by GlaizenGold777.)
:: Sex Magnet FAQ's ::
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Shannon Wrote:Quote:That's what I was leaning towards..but I am experiencing a kind of self consciousness-and frustration of being around people/men especially/really that seems to be part of the SM experience+guys-even obviously straight guys-seem way to curious about me-and its annoying as hell-it feels like it cuts into me energetically if that makes sense. Plus I am not acting as much with woman when I feel I am being watched by others-all these things I feel Alpha would strip away relatively quickly...
I am noticing I get respect from guys, and everyone is nice to me, but I don't get interest or undue attention from guys on 2.0. I also couldn't care less if someone is watching... I picked up the last one's phone number in front of my uncle, aunt and six year old cousin. Who she thought was my son, by the way. lol
Quote:1. What other ways would using Alpha first step it up...does Alpha have manifestations relating to woman?
Alpha is going to build not only a solid base of operations upon which to build SM, it's going to get you comfortable in your own skin and make you more comfortable socializing, leading others and more extroverted. It also does include material on attracting women, but manifestations focus on attracting friends who will improve things for you... not women.
Quote:2. While I do want it permanent-even more than that-I want my SM 2 experience to be as powerful as possible-so would that would probably be Alpha 5.0 first?
AM 5.0 and SM 2.0 are both designed to be long term/permanent. The more powerful effect for some aspects will come from running 2.0 directly after 1.0. The more powerful effect overall will come from running AM 5.0 and then SM 2.0.
Quote:3. You obviously have a will of steel but for those of us more likely to delay the inevitable, work wise, how would you say SM 2.0 fairs for focus in other directions than the fairer sex?
-I appreciate the input-just trying to get the next purchased settled reasonably soon
A will of steel? lol Where do you get that?
SM 2.0 is designed to make you approach, attract and seduce women, and make them try to do the same to you. Aside from having you resist sex with women who are inappropriate, and improving your skills as a lover... what else is it supposed to do?
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Shannon Wrote:Spiral Wrote: Shannon is there any sort of extroversion training or extra socializing in SM 2.0? I know it forces you to get out and meet women but what about from the socializing aspect as a fun game in general with everyone around you?
SM 2.0 does have extroversion/socializing training. The extroversion training is not specifically called that in the script though. These are focused on the goal of the set though - meeting, seducing and having sex with women, and having them do the same with you.
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Shannon Wrote:lovinh3767 Wrote: -->But timing is everything, and the time is not quite right yet.
I am seeing this type of comment in almost all your post on SM2. Shouldn't this be addressed in the sub. Why cant the sub delivers you the right place, right time, right person when *that* happens?
I commented this because I see a pattern.
The sub is designed to do what you suggest. However, as with all manifestations, there are rules that apply to adjust the results outside of what I can do about it, and for me at least, the timing issue is being governed by influences that are present, but fading. The fact that I have gotten as far as I have with this program is amazing to me, given the magnitude of those forces in my life right now. They will be present until about October, after which time it will be much easier for me to achieve sex.
We live in a sea of energy, and it is composed of many sub-types and currents and eddies of other energies. Some of them are manifest as physical matter, and some are not. But they are all influential in their way.
We represent the embodiment, the "tuning fork", if you will, for the energy set that existed when we were born, and it is the interaction of that resonance with the resonance as-it-is-now that guides us in the sea, so to speak. For some people, the current flow and trend will be helpful for sex and relationships; for others, like me, it is hampering in its effect.
Add to that the fact that we all have our reactions to deal with concerning past relationships. In my last major relationship, sex was a major component, and I got hurt so badly that it has taken me 2 years to be able to genuinely say I am coming back to being ready for another serious relationship. I believe that there is some resistance there to being sexually intimate.
But the program is working anyway, in spite of all this, because I would never have been invited to that party if it hadn't manifested into my life the friend who invited me; and I know she is the result of a manifestation because it was 8 years past that I last saw her. Then one day when I was doing something at the mall, and making up my mind that it would be the last time I ever did that particular thing, that she happened upon me and decided that I needed to be included in her social activities.
I spend 95% of my time at home, working. Most of my friends in the area had moved away. I had crippling social anxiety that I didn't even recognize that I had. I was also hiding from the world because of healing from my last major relationship, and because of my mother's death. I don't heal quickly, it seems.
So my social life took a major nose dive. How to get it back on keel, I had no idea short of moving, which I cannot do. But SM 2.0 is reversing that, quite obviously, and socializing is the first step to sex. You can't have sex with women you don't meet.
Also consider that my style is to be as moss most of the time. I prefer to grow on them slowly but surely, so that before they realize it, they ave moss all over them, and they're green. (Just kidding. ) More seriously, I move at the pace of the current with women: if the current is moving quickly, I move quickly. If not, I tend to be slow and steady in changing her response to me.
Manifestation programs can't do much if you never get out of your cave. Andrew is fond of saying that to me, and it's true. While it is possible to have the woman of your sexual dreams just show up at your front door, and I have had women show up at my front door whom I later became sexually involved with through that meeting, it is very unusual.
So consider the program's value and results in light of all the facts and you begin to realize that it's doing a very good and impressive job for me, even though so far I have not had any sex.
Could I have had sex with one of those women last night? Yes, most definitely. I knew which one was most responsive and how to get her engine running. But I also knew she had two kids who were sleeping a couple rooms over, and I was not sure she was single. I was raised by a single mother, and I know what it's like first hand to have guys trying to bed one's mother all the time, as my mother was very attractive in her day. I didn't appreciate how they treated her, and I did not appreciate how they treated me. I will not do that to someone else's kids. A single mother therefore has to be away from her cubs before I am very likely to agree to sex, so as not to involve them, since I am not looking for an instant family. She also has to be single, and unless I want to become seriously involved with her, comfortable with sex for the sake of sex, before I am willing to bed her.
But... in time, I know that I will encounter her without her cubs present, and I know she will also realize that I am a good choice for sex, whether or not initiate first. I also know that she and I are likely to become FWB in time.
And the others, one of whom I wanted to make out with and I know she felt that way too, she is extremely skittish because of having been burned so many times. You do not approach someone who is scared and hurt and try to get up under her skirt unless you have no regard for her as a human being. So I set things up for her to be able to observe me, and over time, she will come to trust me enough that I can continue... if we decide that is hat we want at that point.
The third, well, she is wife material, and taken. That means she's a good catch, and a good catch is always hard to land unless it jumps unto your boat. She's not trying to jump into my boat, and I'm not about to touch a taken woman. But I happen to know how to get her to be interested in me, and I also know that in about 9 months, her current relationship will end. When the time is right, I will make a move. That one is quite a catch.
At the same time, I am being realistic about all this: sometimes, you meet people and you just end up friends. That's okay, because friends are how you have a social life, and socializing is how you meet more candidates. So it's all good.
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Shannon Wrote:Tiesto Wrote: Shannon, once you have completed stage 6 of SM 2.0, and then start on AM 5.0, is it necessary (or more optimal) to take a few days/weeks break in-between?
It is not necessary. However, giving your brain a little time to finish assimilating the last program before starting on the new one can be beneficial. I would say give it a week. Don't let it go more than a month in any case. I believe a week or two would be best. I would do a week.
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Shannon Wrote:RainbowAbyss Wrote: Shannon-did SM 2 every get changed to attracting/manifesting user's (sexual) preference in woman
over, if I remember correctly, in SM1 what was simply 'sexually available woman'...?
SM2 specifies that you will attract physically beautiful women who are of the age range you most prefer, and who are most sexually compatible with you and most interested in having sex with you.
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