11-18-2016, 03:19 PM
11/17/16 Ran the last 3 loops of DMSI V2.5, US, Cozy phones, 9 of 15 clicks volume.
That evening, my wife, sister-in-law, and brother-in-law met for dinner and then went to see Fantastic Beasts.
I looked damn sexy. Trimmed my beard, dyed it my natural brown/black color. I looked 10 years younger, easy.
While waiting at the restaurant for my SIL & BIL to show, a group of 5 young female servers and hostesses gathered about 12 feet from our table. As I watched them, all of them turned toward me at once. They saw me watching, and all giggled and turned back around, then dispersed. Yeah, I know what's up.
SIL sat directly across from me. She interacted with my wife, talking speedily and nervously. She used the F-word a LOT, which isn't like her. She'll use it here and there, but it was "F-this, F-that!" I made comments and interjections that cracked everyone at the table up multiple times. Everything was flowing on point.
11/18/16
No loops.
Took my son to my SIL's house where my SIL, wife, and MIL were having a "Craft Day." It was the only way my wife and MIL would have been able to see my son today.
SIL gave many physical IOIs. The stand-out of the day was an out-of-left-field conversation between my SIL & MIL as I sat with them on the couch. My MIL asked my SIL why she doesn't spoil my BIL, because he spoils her. My SIL said, "I want him to be more independent." She said that multiple times. I read it as, "My husband isn't a real man." In other words, she gets everything she "wants & needs" from him, but it isn't enough. I know why, but my MIL doesn't. My BIL is a "Yes dear," bend-over-backwards beta-wimp. He's a nice guy, and I care about him, but he's the opposite of me. He doesn't set boundaries, and just does whatever he's told. My MIL adores him. She was clearly frustrated and said, "Well, I wouldn't have married you!" to her favorite daughter (she prefers my SIL to my wife, always has). My SIL replied, "I'm NOT a good wife! I say it all the time! I don't know why anyone would marry me!" She said this while looking very seriously at me. Meanwhile, I couldn't blame her. I didn't judge her. I said, "'N' is a grown man. He can make his own decisions, including standing up for himself. He doesn't." Immediately my SIL is nodding in agreement and says, "Exactly." .....dun-dun-duuuuuuuuun!
In about an hour, I'm meeting the ladies - and now BIL, as he'll be off work - for dinner. This should be interesting.
That evening, my wife, sister-in-law, and brother-in-law met for dinner and then went to see Fantastic Beasts.
I looked damn sexy. Trimmed my beard, dyed it my natural brown/black color. I looked 10 years younger, easy.
While waiting at the restaurant for my SIL & BIL to show, a group of 5 young female servers and hostesses gathered about 12 feet from our table. As I watched them, all of them turned toward me at once. They saw me watching, and all giggled and turned back around, then dispersed. Yeah, I know what's up.
SIL sat directly across from me. She interacted with my wife, talking speedily and nervously. She used the F-word a LOT, which isn't like her. She'll use it here and there, but it was "F-this, F-that!" I made comments and interjections that cracked everyone at the table up multiple times. Everything was flowing on point.
- SIL was very bossy with BIL. He may as well have been bent over the table taking it up the tailpipe. Very beta, poor guy.
- My wife told my BIL "You're so funny!" about 5 times. Odd, and noticable.
- I commented on my BIL's beard. Immediately mine was pointed out as the much better beard, neatly trimmed, by both women. BIL irritated.
- SIL engaged me in convo when she realized I wouldn't be going out of my way to do the same.
- Caught SIL eyeing me 3 times. Each time, I could see she had been trying not to get caught. Internally, I had no reaction emotionally.
- Spent the movie consciously sniping, lol - SIL got...squirmy.
11/18/16
No loops.
Took my son to my SIL's house where my SIL, wife, and MIL were having a "Craft Day." It was the only way my wife and MIL would have been able to see my son today.
SIL gave many physical IOIs. The stand-out of the day was an out-of-left-field conversation between my SIL & MIL as I sat with them on the couch. My MIL asked my SIL why she doesn't spoil my BIL, because he spoils her. My SIL said, "I want him to be more independent." She said that multiple times. I read it as, "My husband isn't a real man." In other words, she gets everything she "wants & needs" from him, but it isn't enough. I know why, but my MIL doesn't. My BIL is a "Yes dear," bend-over-backwards beta-wimp. He's a nice guy, and I care about him, but he's the opposite of me. He doesn't set boundaries, and just does whatever he's told. My MIL adores him. She was clearly frustrated and said, "Well, I wouldn't have married you!" to her favorite daughter (she prefers my SIL to my wife, always has). My SIL replied, "I'm NOT a good wife! I say it all the time! I don't know why anyone would marry me!" She said this while looking very seriously at me. Meanwhile, I couldn't blame her. I didn't judge her. I said, "'N' is a grown man. He can make his own decisions, including standing up for himself. He doesn't." Immediately my SIL is nodding in agreement and says, "Exactly." .....dun-dun-duuuuuuuuun!
In about an hour, I'm meeting the ladies - and now BIL, as he'll be off work - for dinner. This should be interesting.
