12-07-2015, 01:33 PM
Hi All;
I've apparently been living under a rock for many years as I just heard about this site and the subs when it was mentioned on another Forum that I frequent. Liking many of the titles I bought a few of them and downloaded the one freebie. I don't really know where to start.
There are a few things that I'd like to get control of. Outwardly it would look like I'm very successful. Nice job, wife and children. Nice home and a bunch of toys...problem is that most of it doesn't resonate with me. I have this internal conflict with all of that in that I don't really want the toys or the big house. I'm more of a minimalist at heart, but I feel like I need to provide for my family, and I'm stuck in a wellpaying but meaningless job because I am the sole breadwinner.
As a consequence, we have quite a bit of consumer debt, about 25% of my annual pay, so it's uncomfortable and I feel very poorly about it. About half of that is due to unexpected repairs on a home, the other half is just stupid consumerism.
I've also had a pronography and masturbation addiction for a good 30 years. I think the addictions get in the way of intimacy with my wife as I feel shame about it, and of course I don't tell her about it. Doesn't help that she requires pronography on the TV when we are being intimate.
I'd like to control/eradicate those habits, or not feel so guilty about it. It's not an everyday thing, but it is a good 3-4 times a week thing (when the house is empty) and there are other things I'd like to do with my time and energy, like write music and stories...hoping that I can someday replace my job income with these other things.
So this is all to explain that I have several little things I want to address, and it's why I bought and downloaded several Subs, but don't know where to start.
Any advice would help, please. I've been reading the forum for a couple of days and find that this is a safe place to seek help, so thank you in advance.
I have ASC,
Stop Masterbating,
Overcoming Pron Addiction
Natural Song and Lyrics Writing,
Better Plot Design for Writers, and
Think Like a Millionaire,
I also have an interest in AM6, but I have a good six months or more of programs here already.
Should I start with one of these? Or something else altogether?
I've apparently been living under a rock for many years as I just heard about this site and the subs when it was mentioned on another Forum that I frequent. Liking many of the titles I bought a few of them and downloaded the one freebie. I don't really know where to start.
There are a few things that I'd like to get control of. Outwardly it would look like I'm very successful. Nice job, wife and children. Nice home and a bunch of toys...problem is that most of it doesn't resonate with me. I have this internal conflict with all of that in that I don't really want the toys or the big house. I'm more of a minimalist at heart, but I feel like I need to provide for my family, and I'm stuck in a wellpaying but meaningless job because I am the sole breadwinner.
As a consequence, we have quite a bit of consumer debt, about 25% of my annual pay, so it's uncomfortable and I feel very poorly about it. About half of that is due to unexpected repairs on a home, the other half is just stupid consumerism.
I've also had a pronography and masturbation addiction for a good 30 years. I think the addictions get in the way of intimacy with my wife as I feel shame about it, and of course I don't tell her about it. Doesn't help that she requires pronography on the TV when we are being intimate.
I'd like to control/eradicate those habits, or not feel so guilty about it. It's not an everyday thing, but it is a good 3-4 times a week thing (when the house is empty) and there are other things I'd like to do with my time and energy, like write music and stories...hoping that I can someday replace my job income with these other things.
So this is all to explain that I have several little things I want to address, and it's why I bought and downloaded several Subs, but don't know where to start.
Any advice would help, please. I've been reading the forum for a couple of days and find that this is a safe place to seek help, so thank you in advance.
I have ASC,
Stop Masterbating,
Overcoming Pron Addiction
Natural Song and Lyrics Writing,
Better Plot Design for Writers, and
Think Like a Millionaire,
I also have an interest in AM6, but I have a good six months or more of programs here already.
Should I start with one of these? Or something else altogether?
